Hi Spid! I too had a problem with lifting my own leg into bed at the hospital. I had to call a nurse to help me each time I tried to get back in bed. When I got home, I borrowed one of my dog's leashes. I would put my foot in the loop (handle) and pull up on it...much like Poppet's bathrobe tie. I only needed to do this for a day or two after getting home.
Funny story for you: I have finally graduated to sitting in my recliner. I am now able to get in and out of it, put the foot rest up (and more importantly down). So last night, I can't sleep so I go out to the living room. I decided since I was all by my self it wasn't that important to lay my crutches down out of everyone's way. So, I leaned them against my husband's recliner (our 2 chairs are separated by an end table and about 3 feet). Long story short, I kicked back, messed around on the laptop, watched some TV...THEN, I realized I had to pee. I reach down for the handle to lower my feet and the darn thing won't budge. Not an inch... I lean over to the left and then to the right, I can't get the footrest down. Then I see that one of my crutches has slid across the floor and has wedged itself under my darn chair. I try reaching down to get it out from under me. No joy! I had a bit of a temper tantrum. In the process, I dropped my cell phone onto the floor and not a grabber in site. Oh ****! Took the remote and used it to knock the other crutch down to where I could reach it, then used it to slide my cell phone over to where I could reach it. Meanwhile, I am calling to my daughters, but they can't really hear me as they are upstairs with their doors shut and their TVs on. So I finally get my cell phone and have to call my daughter to come downstairs to rescue me. Both of them come downstairs laughing at me. If I wasn't worried about peeing on myself, I probably would have had a good laugh about it.
The point of the story is.....stuff happens. Don't sweat the minor details. If you do, you will drive yourself nuts.
Hang in there and keep us posted.
Tammy