Well, we're both doing the best we can. Paul's muscle strength is increasing slowly but surely. He is able to get himself up from a prone position on the bed to sitting on the side by himself (keep in mind he has balance issues). He is using his feet and legs to propel the wheelchair, and they have been working with him with the sit to stand lift in standing supported but putting increasing weight on his legs. Today they are going to try him on the parallel bars.
He's working hard, but really, really wants to be home. But he's keeping his chin up---he's a good patient and always jokes around with the staff. Two more weeks, and he will be home regardless; and then we'll have in home PT for as long as Medicare will pay 100%. Then it will be just us.
I'm fine during the day when I'm with Paul, but by the time I get back home in the late afternoon, I'm just tired. I'm getting 8 hours sleep a night, and I'm making myself eat properly now which I was not doing for the first three weeks. I guess part of what makes me feel tired is that so much needs to be done at home and when I'm here I just don't have the energy to get it done. But this too shall pass, and life will get back to a more normal pattern when Paul gets home. And the day IS coming when we can look back and know that all of this was more than worth it---just can't get here soon enough!! I keep reminding Paul and myself ----TIME & PATIENCE!
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