Thanks for caring. Paul is not home yet. His PT and OT talked with admin and they made some special arrangements with us so Paul could stay a bit longer and get stronger. So he will finally come home on November 16---this coming Friday. He will get a regular wheelchair with arms that can be removed so he can transfer to another surface, a transfer board to do that on, and a new walker. I have ordered a battery powered "sit to stand" patient lift to be sure we can move him wherever he needs to be until he is able to walk with his walker without any assistance for long periods of time.
When Paul saw his OS, the OS told him he could expect total recovery to take at least a year and possibly longer considering all his issues. So we've been mentally, emotionally, and physically adjusting ourselves for the long haul. Paul will have been away from home for 8 weeks, and he is really, really, really ready to come home. And I am really, really, really ready from him to get here.
I try to check in with the forum in the mornings before I leave for the skilled care facility and again briefly in the evenings when I get home. I just don't have the time or energy at the moment to keep up like I should and it makes be feel a bit guilty. But once Paul is home and we get settled in, I believe that after Thanksgiving I will be able to get back to business as usual here on the forum. I am missing all of you, again thanks for caring, it means the world.