@RestAssured
Break "the elephant in the room" or problem, into baby elephants and categorize:
1. Do you have anyone besides your husband who can take care of the children when you are in the hospital?
I don't wanna stay in the hospital but yes I do if it comes down to it, I have someone to be with the kids.
2. Does the doctor say the surgery should happen immediately, or can you take meds for pain?
He suggested 2-4 weeks but said as long as I don't be attempting anything silly and demanding on the knee I can wait for a while yet, so its back to see him in January for a reassessment if it doesn't get intolerable before then. I cannot take pain meds so didn't even think of asking for any.
3. How long is the recovery expected to take for your hubby? Is he staying in the US during recovery?
Hubby is still waiting to see the specialist, his appointment was rescheduled until the 1st week in September. Depending on what he has to have done, we think he will be staying in the US.
4. What are you doing to be kind to yourself and your stress levels? Watching funny movies, sitcoms, reading light hearted books, talking on the phone or visiting with friends, all very helpful!

I am celebrating my b-day today with family and friends...its been a stress free day. After today, I don't know, I am not one to stress for long periods of time but with my husband away I am stressing about things much more...yep I watch movies, I paint, I write and I read. The Big Bang Theory and Friends are my go to stress relievers. I talk with my husband 3-4 times a day and I keep busy...only thing is now I have to slow all the busy stuff down, no more walking on the beach, no more hiking or biking, no long walks until after the knee is revised...