One bright aspect of waiting is it gives your grafts additional healing time.
You have been thru so much and I agree the medical professionals at times do not seem to care much about the patient's timeline. (Or pocketbook)
Sprained my knee 90 days post op. It would not heal. Long story short after multiple aspirations, cortisone and peroneal release I have been diagnosed with a staph infection for a year at least. Pain, stiffness, patella not tracking in the groove. Lack of sleep and missing out on life. Kept telling the OS office something is wrong. Fortunately it's a small colony varient of bacteria and should not require more than a washout and spacer change.
But you are an inspiration to soldier through like you have, as we all understand the hardships. It's difficult for others to understand how the emotions are impacted when you fall into that 1% with complications.