Hi Tammy, I'm sorry to hear your "ordeal" is such an ordeal. It's hard to imagine someone being in more discomfort. It will get better, just don't loose faith. I haven't any intelligent words of wisdom as all the knowlegeable people have posted the important things that matter. If I could say anything, it's "take it easy", get plenty of rest. I told my wife the pt said I should have bed rest and be waited on hand and foot. Well, the pt correct me and said "no way, she (the pt) only tells her female paitents no cooking and no cleaning for 12 months". Oh well, guess that plan got shot down. I asked another pt how I get one of those handicap tags so I could get priority parking near the front of the store. She told me if I want to park near the front, get there at 1am, otherwise, park at the back, move those legs and get some exercise. Another well thought out plan that came back to bite me somewhere. For me, it's been 16 days, stiches out, on a cane without pain.
Good luck.