What a blessed Sunday this is! I had a big day yesterday and Ralph got a little mad, but we survived and I am proud of him. My daughter and I went to the cemetery where my parents are buried and changed the flowers on the graves, then drove out to the country where my grandparents are buried and changed those flowers. We then visited one of my Momma's best friends. I also went to church and setup the heat for the week. (Programming 4 thermostats and checking the furnaces - lots of stairs) Later that day, I walked Charlie around the block! That is the first time I have walked all the way around the block. We have a few hilly spots that were a little more challenging, but it was nice to do the walk. Ralph was very swollen and there are some new stabs of pain, but I am confident this will work itself out. The stomach problems I feel are about 60% better. Still hopeful for a recovery on that front.
At 4 months, I will say it has been a hard journey with some complications. Most of them are attributable to my extreme sensitivity to medication and hard PT. Am I disappointed I didn't have the easy time some have? Absolutely. Do I understand why my journey went off into the ditch, wallered in the mud, then jumped in another mud puddle? Never. Am I thankful for what I have achieved? Always. Even though things have not been what I expected, there was never an alternative other than pressing on. I have found the depth of my relationship with my husband is greater than I could have imagined and know I am blessed and loved. I have a new appreciation for the beautiful young woman my daughter has become and I am so proud of her. Friends have amazed me with their concern and love. So you see, things may not be what I expected, although they have made me realize what love, strenght, care, and prayer look like. Ralph and I will keep on working at improving and figuring out how to make the best life we can. I thank each of you that have been here for me, cheering, sympathizing, encouraging, and helping me along the way. I couldn't have had the journey I have, without you.
I hope everyone has a day of thankfulness and comfort.