THR Sharon's Anniversary Waltz

Sharon
You are so cool and laid back. Glad things are coming together .... re the poo issue ... I had problems but wouldn't take anything in hospital as would rather have any speedy action near to my own loo. After 5 days took some Boots gentle relief (or something like that) and worked a treat.
Keep cheering us up with your great posts
 
The action was anything but speedy, but I have finally attained relief!! I have zero energy today, both from coping with the discomfort, and then the actual achievement. I went out for a short walk in the afternoon, and the intense heat sent me right back in. Just camping out on the couch all day.....reading and sleeping. I have no appetite....haven't since surgery. I am forcing myself to eat. It's okay; I lost a few pounds before surgery; would dearly like to continue...it's just so odd for me. I'm not even wishing for anything chocolate to show up on my doorstep. I suppose I could force myself to eat a triple chocolate deluxe brownie or some such....but absolutely no desire. Definitely a low-key, laid-back, limp noodle kind of day.
 
Sharon, I had no appetite for the first week or two after my last surgery. NOTHING sounded good. I drank a lot of Ensure and Boost to get enough calories and general nutrition for healing. Most days would be those drinks and maybe a bowl of cereal or soup at some point, but the drinks were my staple. But ... the appetite returned--I would have liked it to stay away for a little longer, lol.

The energy zapping nature of this surgery and recovery is truly mind boggling to me. I'm glad you just took a short walk and made the sensible decision to rest. You are just so early in recovery.

Dorothy
 
May I say, your description --
"The action was anything but speedy, but I have finally attained relief!! ---coping with the discomfort, and then the actual achievement"

--Was quite elegant haha. Glad relief was attained. I have to say, here in Burlington the humidity was intense today. The dew point was really high. You sure seem to be taking good care of yourself, knowing to just lay low and do the limp noodle. Good for you Sharon. Hope you have a good night sleep as well, Cathy
 
So glad you found relief and were able to spend time laying low today. I'm in Missouri and this summer's heat wave and drought have certainly made life interesting.
 
Hey Sharon,
You sound like you are doing so well and are wise enough to know to go slow even through your body "seems" like it could take more activity.
One needs to have a transit every day, but you know how these meds play havoc on the system. Glad you had relief and go for Z's prune suggestion, as well as increase fiber with vegtables (better cooked; get a lot of green leafy ones like beet root tops) and fresh fruits, for continued action.
So thrilled to hear how well you are going on!
Elle
 
Hi Sharon, I am loving your, as Cathy says, very elegant manner in which to describe your bowel movements, also Elles, ' need to have a transit' every day. It made me laugh. I may be using these terms is I need to discuss this in a very polite way. :)

Hope you manage to have something to eat today, you thoroughly deserve a triple choc delux brownie after what you've been through....go on..have one.......even if you don't feel like it. After one bite I bet you will be hooked again.lol.

Take care and rest up

Ann
 
One full week since surgery, and it feels like I've come full circle. My early promise of overachievement seemed like it was fizzling out after I was so depleted by my elimination adventures! Since Sunday, I've had zero energy, zero interest in anything that required energy, and zero concern about my lack of interest. The word "passive" would be overstating my interest in the world at this point.

Even yesterday afternoon, when two of my darling granddaughters came to visit....I put on a good act, but I was relieved when they left. Then the home nurse came to discharge me, and she's a sweetheart, but I just wanted her to stop talking and go already.

Last night I took my two vicodin around midnight as usual, and climbed into bed. EIGHT hours later, I woke up. Wow....that's a record night of uninterrupted sleep for me in normal times, let alone this very abnormal time. I ate breakfast, and fell asleep for another two hours. By the time my 2PM PT appointment rolled around, I wished I could skip it and go back to sleep. But I rallied....took a shower, DROVE MYSELF the one mile, and let them have their way with me.

I like my PT place. They seem knowledgeable and caring, but I end up wanting to please them and that means I sometimes push more than I actually should. Today however, she was very thorough but very gentle, and everything she had me do felt like just the right amount. At the very end, I relax for ten minutes with an ice pack, and it reminds me of getting a massage...I felt pampered. I came home, promptly took another two hour nap, and woke up only mildly throbbing around the incision.

Around 8 this evening, out of nowhere, it felt like a blanket of fog lifting off me. I had a sudden surge of energy, both physical and mental. I rounded up my SO, and we took a good walk, all the way to the trash dumpster!! I continue to feel this surge....my brain has woken up; what a relief! I missed myself.

Everyday is a different experience, that's for sure.

Sharon
 
Yay Sharon. Your recovery is inspiring. The trash dumpster today, the end of the block tomorrow, the world next week! Hope you continue to heal and grow stronger every day.

Regards
Suki
 
Sharon, wow! You sound spectacular!
Your body is so SMART to go into sleep-mode because that is exactlly what you need. That is wonderful that you were actually able to sleep,as it sounds like so many have sleep issues early on.
What do you mean you DROVE week 1???!!! Really? Possible?!
You keep going, Sharon! It is so wonderful to hear your good news!!
Hugs
Elle
 
I love reading your posts. You have quite a way with words and usually I end up with a chuckle [Bonesmart.org] Sharon's Anniversary Waltz

What an inspiration you are listening to your body so well. It needed extra rest, you gave it that and now it is ready for a bit more. Like Suki said said, today the dumpster, tomorrow who knows? Truly glad you "found yourself" again, I come and go on a regular basis haha. Take care and so glad you are doing well, cathy
 
You are such a pro at this hip replacement thing--I really admire how you are handling the process. You always have such a positive attitude and "turn lemons into lemonaide".

Dorothy
 
Sharon,

Can you believe the Aurora, CO situation? I noticed you commented on it in another "hippies" post..... there is always someone worse off. How tragic this is. I have said prayers all day and night. I just can't imagine what these families are going through.

Best.
 
I've been hesitating to post any updates because I'm doing so well. I don't want to jinx my recovery, and I don't want anyone else to compare and think they are behind just because I can do things they can't yet. I have theories about why my THR recoveries are so easy....I'll list them in a moment.

First, the actual update: it's 18 days post-op today. I am sleeping well...a good 7 hours every night, even on my back. I am walking well...using the cane outside. In my apartment, I try to use the cane, I really do, but I often forget it. I'll be halfway to the bathroom or the kitchen when I realize, and it seems silly to go back for it. I still limp a bit without the cane; for that matter, I still limp a bit with the cane, but another week or two of PT should help me eliminate that. I started driving very short distances after the first week, and continue to do so with a bit more comfort. I could increase my distance if I had to, but I'm still very aware of the hip every time I turn, so I'm avoiding trips longer than 1 mile. That should change over the next week, I think. We'll see.

I have PT three times a week, and I'm enjoying it. Last time, my therapist did some stretches on both legs that helped enormously with the muscle tightness in my quads and hamstrings. I came home from PT, and I was so incredibly relaxed....it was just as good as having a massage. I'm getting in several short daily walks...the longest so far was about half a mile...coincidentally the same day as that wonderful PT session. I've been getting out for some of my knitting groups, and dinner out with friends. I tried grocery shopping one time....that was a strain.

In between any activity, I am back on the couch....napping, reading, TV, whatever. My brain is still reluctant to focus on anything long-term, but I am making good progress on an easy project. I am taking my book lists from the last twenty years, and turning it into a sortable database that I can access on my iPad wherever I am. No more buying a book only to come home and realize I already read it. And didn't even like it!! I am feeling quite well enough that the long stretches of inactivity are feeling like boredom, so I'm trying now to plan one fun thing each day to look forward to. Dinner with friends tonight....cards with friends tomorrow night....seeing my granddaughters on Sunday. Monday is my 3 week checkup with the PA....pretty routine.

So....I've given a lot of thought as to why my recovery is so easy. In no particular order, here's what I'm thinking:
1. I have no other health issues at all. And the reason for my THRs is simple osteoarthritis. I reallize OA is not necessarily simple. But it does seem like people with different issues....AVN, dysplasia, accidents, etc.....suffered a lot more before their THR, and take a longer time for the initial recovery from surgery itself..

2. I went into both THRs still in pretty good shape as far as mobility. I limped two years longer than I should have for the first, and learned that lesson for the second. But even at my worst, I could still walk a mile daily and I still had a lot of flexibility and range of motion.

3. I am not stinting myself on pain meds. I think this is really important. With my first THR, I was also doing quite well two weeks out. So I thought I should start weening off the pain meds. By four weeks out, I was in a lot more pain, and I had to regroup and start over. Stupid me. This time, I have no intention of making dramatic changes to my med routine anytime soon. I take two Vicodin before bed....I am sure this is why I am sleeping so well. In the morning, I take two Tramadol. Midday...around 1-ish....I take two more Tramadol if it's a PT day, and I sub out 2 Tylenol on non-PT days. Around 6-ish, I take two Tylenol. There you have it; round the clock pain meds. I look forward to being drug-free several months from now. I am fortunate that so far the worst side effect has been constipation. That has been fairly easy to remedy since the first bout.

4. I am not stinting myself on rest. Even though I am physically able to be more active now, I am holding myself back. I am fortunate that I don't have to worry about getting back to work. I do start classes at the end of August, but that is nothing like being at work. My inner sloth is having a heyday, and I don't feel guilty in the least. Bored yes, but not guilty.

5. My surgeon...I got lucky....he seems to be a master at getting the job done with as much muscle-sparing as possible.

If anyone reading this is struggling with pain (stiff, sore, aching, throbbing, burning, tightness, restless, etc) after recovery I urge you to take a realistic look at your medications and your activities. I see so many posts where fellow hippies say they are doing fine, but.... But it hurts at night. But it hurts to walk. But I can't sleep. But I'm still limping. But my butt hurts. A little pain....sure. This was major big surgery. But debilitating pain? There comes a point down the road where the pain meds have to be tapered off. But in the first two to three months....they are just as important as the walker, cane, or crutch. In many cases, even longer....I ended up needing pain med for five months after the first THR. So be it.

We play the hand we're dealt. I've been lucky to get good cards.

Sharon
 
I enjoyed reading your post so much!!! I'm so happy for you. It's wonderful to read a super-success story--very inspiring.

I hope everything keeps going well and your excellent recovery continues. :-)

Dorothy
 
Great report, Sharon.
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A stellar recovery--but you are doing all the right things--taking your pain meds on a schedule, resting, keeping activities to a reasonable level, etc. That makes a world of difference. Keep up the good work.

 
Hey there Sharon,

I was really happy to read your post and hear you are doign so well! I am very happy for you! The analysis in 5 steps of why your surgery has been so successful is very helpful to all.

Like you, I have been a bit reluctant to post on my own thread, because I am doing so well. I know that is nothing to be ashamed about, but we do feel for people who are struggling. I know it is good to have the whole spectrum of possibilities represented however.

My inner sloth salutes yours! Rest rocks!

Warm regards,

Elle
 
Hi Sharon

You have THE most amazing attitude to surgery, I absolutely love reading your posts. They are so inspirational!

I also adore the way you 'go with the flow of the moment'... That is so empowering..
 
Hi Sharon popped in to see how you were doing and fingers crossed I will be feeling the same come monday night once I have had my left hip done.

I am not stinting myself on rest. Even though I am physically able to be more active now, I am holding myself back. I am fortunate that I don't have to worry about getting back to work. I do start classes at the end of August, but that is nothing like being at work. My inner sloth is having a heyday, and I don't feel guilty in the least. Bored yes, but not guilty.

Like the wee paragraph above and holding back is good, a lot of people won't understand this as they are desperate to get their old selves back asap. It is vitaly important to recognise you are in recovery and not back in the gym.
Take care Sharon and speedy recovery.
 
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