I don’t know, but I don’t think it’s anyone’s responsibility. I guess if you want him to know it would be up to you to tell him.
I’ve had that conversation, in my head, with my original surgeon, but I don’t think I’d ever do it for real. I don’t like confrontation and to be honest, I have to think (hope) he meant well and something somewhere just didn’t work out.
And I think he knew that at my one year check up. He sat there studying my knee, which even had some swelling that day, and didn’t really offer any suggestions, other than trying to desensitize the incision. I told him it’s not the incision that is bothering me. He had nothing else to say, and he did read my list of concerns. He either didn’t have any ideas, or he chose not to say anything. IF he made a decision that didn’t work out, he opens up a huge can of worms if he admits it. I understand that.
Yes, I still think about it, but I need to let that part go.