Hi robynhood. You said in one of your messages that it is wrong to compare. Of course, you are right, but I find I cannot stop it. Sometimes comparing makes me feel better other times it makes me feel worse.
You also said that your knee was so much better today because you had rested. I am still struggling with this. If resting is the answer, then why don't we all take to our beds for 6 months? Then when we get up all will be well. Sorry, I know this is an exaggeration, and its about finding the balance. But as the knee seems to change all the time its so difficult to know what's too much until its too late.
When I last saw my surgeon his parting words to me were that I needed to push myself more. I don't know what this was based on because he never asked me what I did, still the emphasis was on working hard. When I was in hospital I asked a nurse who were the patients that did badly. Without hesitation she said those who didn't exercise. Similarly, the PTs advocate exercising 3 times a day. Also for the need to keep upping the exercises. Yet the emphasis on Bonesmart is all about REST. Despite some very relevant and helpful messages I still find it difficult to know what to do for the best. Best wishes Pat99