TKR New Dawn New Day New knee

[Nana moon 27]

Happy Birthday dear Terri
Happy Birthday to you xxxx
Love from Ann xxx

 

[yiayia3]

Love it thank you and you found my thread xx

 

[Ellejay]

Happy Birthday @yiayia3
I have to admit I didn't realise until I saw @nana moon 27s post, but the good wishes are genuinely mine xxxxx

 

[yiayia3]

Thanks @Ellejay x

 

[Nana moon 27]

Congratulations @yiayia3 may you have many more year together. Well done.
All my love to you both, Ann x x x

 

[yiayia3]

Oh Thanks @Nana moon 27 your such a kind thoughtful lady.
Feeling very low at the moment my 2 daughter in laws don't get on been like this for years, we can never have any family parties with all of them as it's a complete nightmare.Now it's spilling out to the grandchildren my daughter in law doesn't like her son playing with the other two,he was stopped from coming here yesterday to play with his cousins,it just makes me so sad that it's now involving the children, my eldest grandson was crying because he wanted to play with his cousin,I love to have them all here as they get to know each other now that's stopped.Sorry for the rant,still looking forward to this evening 2 sons and family coming so will be nice.Hope I've not bored you too much.Have a lovely Saturday Terri x

 

[Nana moon 27]

Oh Terri, that's so immature and pathetic. My two girls and our son don't really see eye to eye but they wouldn't pass it in to the kids. My daughter lives with her partner who's family she's not overly keen on at all and with justifiable reason she never stops the kids from playing or cause problems at social functions. She comes in and has a rant, out if the kids earshot but that is it!

You've not bored me. To be honest I feel sorry for your sons being with selfish women like that. I can't hack that behaviour. Maybe they'll put their foot down and sort them out. They'll take so much and then like a bolt out of the blue, the size 9 goes down and The Great Oz has spoken! You know what I mean? I hope it happens soon. Otherwise Christmas will be a nightmare. You don't deserve this Terri but at least you can console yourself that it's not your kids that are behaving like spoilt brats. Toe up the backside for 'em, that's what they need.

Me, I'd call the call the pair of them to the house and I would address the issue directly, face to face. I would tell them in no uncertain terms the problems THEIR behaviour was now causing spilling onto my grandchildren. Trouble is if you say nothing then they get away with it. I'd sleep on this for a few nights and consider what can be done to sort it before Christmas, for your eldest grandsons sake if not your own. Don't have problems, just have solutions, they work better Terri xx if they fall out with you then that's their loss. I would also be in lined to speak to your boys first and warn them what you may do. That might be enough to spur them into action to deal with it before you're forced to. It's purely advice and thoughts for you Terri. Those two girls have no rights to ruin your special day like this xxxx

All my love to you Terri, love Ann xxx

 

[yiayia3]

Thanks Anne it's good to talk about it,I have tried to talk to them in the past not about the grandchildren but just to be in the same room!Jo was willing to give it a try but Sarah was not interested and put the phone down on her,so unfortunately it made it worse.Jo is happy for her boys to play with Jack but it's Sarah that's stopping it. Will try talking to her but not holding my breath.Thanks so much for caring,I know we all have family issues at times,sadly this one is long term.Love Terri

 

[Nana moon 27]

What does Sarah's husband, your son think of this? He must feel torn in two mind x x if you want to talk about this via pm. I'm more than happy x and confidentially x x

 

[yiayia3]

Just dusted my thread as may need it a lot in January.
Wishing all our U.S friends a very happy Thanksgiving have a lovely day tomorrow.
@Nana moon 27 sorry to hear about your friend it's so difficult to know what to say,but I'm sure your'll have the right words when you see her.@Ellejay don't blame you for giving that knee a bashing your'll soon have a shiny new one,while I'm still thinking about it.
@Legin love your recommend music track I found it,you have good taste.
Happy Wednesday everyone

 

[Legin]

Ty music was my first love as tthey say 26 gb of music and counting

Legin THR Sep 14

 

[Ellejay]

Not wishing another TKR on you @yiayia3, but very happy to be a knee buddy again, and just think of next summer, travelling around in the motor home without the knee pain.
I know what you mean about dusting off the thread again, I've got so used to using @Nana moon 27 s thread, but I think I will use my own thread after the TKR.

 

[Nana moon 27]

Hi @Ellejay you can post anything any time on my post. I think though for recovery so it's properly documented on here would be sensible. However, I mean way I say. You are welcome to post aches and pains anything on my thread and we will all give you virtual hugs and support. We also have pm for personal stuff that we don't want to put on our threads as well x

@yiayia3 thank you for your kind words about my friend. I've known her a long long time. Since my kids were little. She was their playgroup teacher before we became friends x

Love Ann x x x

 

[yiayia3]

Hi everyone just dusting off my thread again.Well I will be seeing my O.S the week after Christmas for one year check and review of left knee watch this space lol.I'm in bed today with a tummy bug and feeling rubbish,my D.I.L had it then hubby, need to be better by Sunday as we have a big lunch party so resting today.
Just want to wish everyone on Bonesmart a very happy pain free and peaceful Christmas and many thanks for all the help and support given to me in the last year.Have a great time love Terri:tree2;:box::re-snowman::kittychris::reindeer::santa sleigh:

 

[Ellejay]

Hi Terri, @yiayia3
So sorry that you are not well, this is just not the time of year to be ill, but because we are all so stressed we often catch something or other. I hope you feel much better very soon.
Good luck when you see your OS, it sounds as if you might be next in line for a second TKR. I am pleased I've had it done, it's not nice now, but hopefully by Spring I will be able to get out and about pain free.
Have a wonderful Christmas Terri, xxx Lyn

 

[SuperSnapper]

@yiayia3 Hi, sorry to hear about your tummy bug. Hope things feel better soon. Sounds as if you'll soon be seeing your OS so lots of luck with that . In the meantime, I hope you have a lovely Christmas and many thanks for your supportive messages
Mary x:santa sleigh:

 

[chestnc]

Aw.. @yiayia3, so sorry you are having the tummy troubles. Hope you get rid of that soon. You must be able to enjoy all the food and festivities of the season. Wishing you well and congratulations on your up and coming one year anniversary.. Yeah time does fly. Get better so you can really enjoy the holidays. :santa hug:

 

[yiayia3]

Thanks @chestnc hope you feel better very soon as well take care x

 

[yiayia3]

Well after a lovely day yesterday now in lots of pain with left knee,pleased in a way that I'm seeing O.S. on January2nd.Will rest up today after a very nice but hectic day yesterday.Hope everyone is O.K.and not doing too much in the lead up to Christmas. :kittychris:

 

[Ellejay]

:merryx:

Have a lovely Christmas @yiayia3, I hope you manage to have a pain free break. Thanks for all your support, I've really appreciated it. Roll on the next caravan/ motor home season xxxx