@jomarie58 I've found that every day brings progress and sometimes mini setbacks. I'm able to do so much more each day but frustration because I get so tired. Sometimes it is like a light switch turns off and I announce "I have to go sleep NOW". As my right leg has begun it's awakening the skin area feel weird and my right knee ( which has never given me a minute's problem in my life) is bruised way more than my anterior incision area and has demanded it's own ice pack. I met a woman in therapy who had had both hips and both knees replaced in the past year. I immediately thought this was going to happen to me because I need both hips done and if my knees have to be destroyed in the process then I'll be lower limb robotic in no time.
My constipation was remedied within a few days of going home. So much stress on the body I guess and no food or drink for about 24 hours, it took a few days to wake up the colon. I cannot imagine having to sit on a low toilet and being comfortable. When I had my pre op class, we were told that knee replacements would have to have the raised seat with handles and that hips, not so much so not to worry if you didn't have one or didn't want to get one. NOT! I really cannot imagine not having the higher toilet with side handles. Ouch. Relaxing at home with your own food and a routine should get you all straightened out.
Hard to understand why the nurses didn't check on your progress and update your DH at least every 30 minutes. It doesn't help the trust in the healthcare team. I found so many little things that I was told would happen during my stay but did not happen and I began to focus on wondering if the nurses even communicated with each other. Luckily, I get to take a survey about my experience. ;)
Congratulations on moving forward. --julie