@beachy , I didn't check in here yesterday (since it wasn't such a good day for me), but I was sorry to read about your PT experience. There's just no excuse for the bullying and intimidation that seems to happen far too often in the context of post-op PT. However, I'm glad to hear that at least you were able to have a nice walk outside plus spend time with your son and the dog. Your determination to have a great recovery and your positive attitude are the most important factors for a great outcome!
I feel fairly fortunate in the PT department overall. Even though the PT who came to our home 3 times (once for evaluation and twice for brief visits) didn't seem too effective, it was easy enough for me to transition to the local outpatient PT program. My first "regular" visit was yesterday morning and I'm sorry to say that the after effects are entirely my own fault. The positive feeling of being able to do some exercise (i.e., including 7 minutes slowly extending and bending on a Nu-Step) led me to join the ODIC. I kept wanting to do more "reps" of several exercises, including those done while standing at the parallel bars. Later in the day yesterday, my staples came out -- that was a lot more uncomfortable than I expected, including some bleeding. The PA applied Steri-Strips over my incision, so between the ouchy feeling of the exterior and some soreness underneath from PT, my knee didn't have a happy evening or overnight. I used a lot of ice, including in the overnight hours. Today is a little better, but I will definitely back off with the intensity of exercise for my next appointment on Monday. The PT did say something about "Let's see how you feel and how you are tolerating this" so it's not a complete shock that I simply was too enthusiastic! I need to remind myself to be patient and allow my knee to heal on its own time.
One huge accomplishment that happened this past week was joining my husband for dinner at our favorite casual pizza restaurant in Belmar, NJ, which is a coastal town about a 15 minute drive from our home. Other than the evaluation at PT on Wednesday, plus the two appointments yesterday (PT and OS office for staples out), I have not left our house at all. Thursday evening was lovely here, with the weather a little warmer and no wind. I can't describe the overwhelming feeling of sitting across from my husband in a restaurant (!!!), enjoying a Caesar salad and pizza. He and I kept looking at each other and smiling like it was our first date.

The restaurant wasn't crowded and it was easy to get a table (rather than a booth) to both accommodate my walker and make it easier to get into/out of the chair. If you are mobile enough to get out of the house a bit, I would greatly recommend doing something like this to feel more like yourself again. I'm sure your husband would also enjoy a change of scenery!
We had a nice visit with our granddaughter and granddog this morning (while both parents were working) and that was fun. It was short enough but long enough, if you know what I mean. My husband took our granddaughter to one of the free kids' workshops at Home Depot, where she built a helicopter model. Seeing ordinary things like that happening (whether they involve me or not) gives me confidence about being able to enjoy doing family things again. I have to keep remembering that once this healing-from-surgery pain goes away, things will feel better in my knee than they have in years!
I hope you and your family will have a wonderful weekend.
