ElanorG
post-grad
Judy, I will tell you what I have learned about hip flexors from my own struggles, but it is by no means comprehensive and I don't know all the medical/PT jargon. As my knees degraded and I walked less and sat more, my hip flexors tightened and weakened. In general, walking and stairs are the best exercise for hip flexors. Not stairs per se, but just doing some inclines up and down plus a lot of walking. For most people whose knees are OK, some easy fitness walking and the day to day walking of life and going up and down the stairs a few times is usually enough to keep your hip flexors going. But for those of us who stopped walking much they can become an issue and I think it tends to be worse if one carries excess weight. The hip flexor connects into the soas muscle which runs up from the hip flexor through the abdomen and then under the breast veers off to the side and connects with a muscle in the back whose name I forget. It is hard to explain in words. Anyway, a lot of sitting weakens the hip flexor and soas and makes them tight and contract. Their are ways to get them to stretch, lie on your bed with your legs hanging off (face up), lie on a bolster so that your chest and stomach open up (that is a restorative yoga pose but I forget the name). But getting the hip flexor stronger is more important I think. One exercise is sit on your bed or the floor with your back against the wall and try and raise your leg. It will be very hard and it will only move an inch or so but this is normal. Initially it may not move at all until you get the hip flexors to fire.
I also have problems with my hip because of the arthritis in it too and I am hoping that losing more weight will really help that to be more comfortable.
I know what you mean about it being embarassassing that you return to work and are not able to do more as I sometimes feel the same way. First, I think you are probably being too hard on yourself. This is a process and it will get better all the time. Your PT sounds spot on as this whole thing with my hip flexors gets better and better as more time goes by. It just does not happen fast enough!
I also have problems with my hip because of the arthritis in it too and I am hoping that losing more weight will really help that to be more comfortable.
I know what you mean about it being embarassassing that you return to work and are not able to do more as I sometimes feel the same way. First, I think you are probably being too hard on yourself. This is a process and it will get better all the time. Your PT sounds spot on as this whole thing with my hip flexors gets better and better as more time goes by. It just does not happen fast enough!
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let's hope that's the case for you as well, and soon we won't get that interruption in our walk!