Hi Ann - I am ashamed of our health service and in particular the abysmal way you have been treated. I could be tremendously un-PC at this point .............. but I guess you know what I am thinking. It seems so unfair that other people get every treatment they need without a fraction of the run around that you have had to put up with. I think that you are absolutely right, there is some evil logic that if they mess you about enough, you will eventually get thoroughly fed up and go away.
The saddest thing, is that part of you will want to stick up for yourself, not let them get away with it and fight back, but at this stage in the sorry saga of your ortho treatment, I don't think you have an awful lot of fight left in you my old mate

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Given that your patella (or paella as Doglover would have it - sorry Ellen, couldn't resist, it still makes me smile) op is only a few weeks away now, perhaps the answer is to get that fixed and use the time up until then to formulate a stiff letter of complaint and even better, try to find somebody to support you and take up your case. The very reason you are in this position is down to their inefficiency - plus the stand-in ortho, having to make good the work he did initially.
As you have said before, your years of working and paying into the system should give you the health care you need when you need it - and they have failed you repeatedly.
We haven't gone down to the coast today, as I think the paint finally got to me and I had a really bad head and felt yukky. I'm a bit better now but I don't want to be on my PC for too long. I'm going now to seethe and swear on your behalf. I'll PM you later Ann. So sorry - you must feel so let down.
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