Hello. Signing in after 20 days absent from forum.
@Pheebs52 wrote a pm to ask how I was. Thanks!. I guess as expected.
Almost 4th month post op (that would be in 3 days) so it is
17 weeks post op today.
People in RL also ask me how I am doing. I often hesitate: how much do I tell, how much do they want to know? how much do they care? (Is it merely a polite question?)
I can tell you here though: I am still not happy with my upgraded knee. It does not bend smoothly. IOW it
still clonks with (almost) every step and at times it hurts even at rest. It swells up less, so that's a positive. But my ankle swells up almost every evening.
There's some saying I picked up somewhere and don't know how much truth there is to it, but supposedly if it still hurts at rest, then op was done too soon. But I did both scales and it was high time, so I will ignore the saying.
I wrote to tell my OS this, about the op knee still clonking, he said I am still too impatient.
I still have the very tight band or grip/clamp feeling and it is easier to ignore than the clonking. I rarely use the sleeve, unless I know ahead of time that I'll be walking more than 500 meters. I carry it in my bag now.
I have
not been "doing the exercises" recommended by rehab physiotherapists on a regular basis. Mostly just when I feel like it. Biking on my stationary bike is also infrequent. There's so much other stuff to do (mostly housework) and catch up with and places to go ad infinitum. And now that I can concentrate on reading, I am back to reading books and scientific journals.
Then there's the upcoming 6 week trip (to So Am) to plan and research for and brush up my Spanish...and there's my MIL to comfort with frequent calls, and repeated reminders. Poor soul, she often forgets she has called to ask me X Y or Z.
Everything takes time, and it takes longer than it used to, as you all know.
I've been catching up with other medical appointments too. My BP is too high.

( but only when measured by a doctor; at home it is within range, sort of) My skin has suspicious spots etc
My DH often drives me to OR fetches me from the metro station when I have to run errands. I haven't been driving too much. Now that he's retired, he likes to drive where he can and so we combine trips. But driving poses no problems now, although I did notice after 30 min of city driving my op knee ( left) wants a rest from the clutch maneuvers. I've told DH our next car, if any,
must be an automatic.
My other knee is doing OK. I can now stand for
about 1 hour with little trouble, (had to wait around for someone last week) but I do take every opportunity to sit when available. I take my cane when I go outdoors, too many dogs about, and it gets me a seat on the underground.

We've been on several outings and that's included walking on difficult uneven terrain and sometimes doing lots of steps to see the sights. Have taken ice packs with me to put on after. But that too is less frequently.
Have appointment with OS in 4 weeks time. The final letter from the rehab place arrived last week and basically they write that I made progress. (duh)
Will now go have a look what others have been up to and how they are doing. Ta-

ta for now!