Well... Yes, Jamie we are buying the cabin!

Thanks to everyone for the wonderful encouragement on my weight loss! I have a cheering squad at T-Star also, that are regular exercisers but are "older" folks who have been there from the day I started! The great thing about T-Star as a gym, is no one is looking down at you! We have several doctors that come there to exercise after they get off of work, and they are very nice also! I must say my mind, my body, and my spirit have all reawakened as a result of this "transformation in progress!" I love who I am, where I am heading, and I am looking forward to a rewarding career in Mediation.
I went back to my old school last Friday and taught a group of 9th graders about conflict resolution! When I did the bullseye with them, their name was in the center. I had them listing family in the first ring out. Then, friends in 2nd ring out, acquaintances 3rd ring out, outside influences 4th ring out. They really got into the exercise thinking about all the people who caused THEM to have conflict!
I paused for a moment, and said when everyone is finished I will know, because you will lay your pencils down, but make sure you listed all you want to list!
Then I said, look closely at the bullseye, "Do you notice the 4 arrows from all directions in the background?"
They said yes, and I said where are they pointing? One girl slowly raised her hand and then several more so I asked her and she said they are pointing towards ME! I said "yes, because you are the ONLY one who can choose your reaction to each of the people outside of your circle! When your friends try to convince you to do something you shouldn't "It is your CHOICE to say yes or no!" Same with dating and the way you choose to treat your parents!
The funny thing was, they listened intently to everything I said! I had hooked them! LOL
Not bad for a shy person "huh"!
Oh, I also showed them a picture of me at my heaviest, and how I had made the choice to do something different! Unkind remarks, begging from sister, talks from Mom, none did anything until I decided!