Well I had perthes disease as a child and basically over time it got worse to the point where I could not hardly walk so enough was enough
I'm sorry that you had to deal with this condition but I'm happy that you were able to get that bad hip replaced so that you can get better.
Also the first week was horrible not being able get into bed and walk but I got through the first week and now slowly I seem to be getting somewhere
This is true for almost all new hippies...
I think if you take the time to google a hip replacement surgery (I prefer an animated version

) you may better understand what was necessary in order to get a new hip and understand you need to re-set your expectations for how long it takes to recover.
When I was recovering....I would tell myself sometimes...If your hip had been broken in a car accident and repaired, instead of an elective surgery, would you baby it more?
also I was just wondering why the process to get me to the point where I can return to my active life that I had before the surgery takes so long?
You said you had reached the point where you could barely walk, so I think if you can remember how bad it had gotten and realize most likely all of what you are going through is
Temporary...it will keep you from being so anxious.
I think you asking the same questions, hoping to get a different answer...but we care how you are doing and unfortunately more healing time is what will equal progress.