Hey Sponge! Happy New Year!
Read your post. We are not that dissimilar my friend. My hip was done in Nov 2022. At December 2023 I was feeling great after 13 months of a slow recovery with many setbacks.
2024 was a WORSE year than 2023. What!?! Yup. One self inflicted setback after another, the worst in April when I extermally rotated my operated leg which was weak and pushed with all my might to stand up. And guess what happened? Doink! Hip flexor and back gave out, biggest setback in recovery took months to recoever and......doink! November was doing a strech I shouldnt have done and irritated back.....
So how could this happen with all of my detailed posts and reading etc etc etc? I mean isn't Charlie a smart enough guy? Nope - but I am a lifelong learner! So I went back to the drawing board.... And... What is my latest revelation?............................... I don't know the alphabet.
Wait? Spellling? Alphabet? Yes! I make progress from A, B, C but then try F (picture swear word) but you go out of order from what your body is able to do. And what happens? You get injured and have a setback. Thats me for two years. The hip replacement is FINE! but you and I are young and (speaking for myself) I make the mistake of saying we can skip letters. And its not intentional! We are not exercise experts! With all my reading I finally realized I needed help and now found a virtual trainer who can help me learn the alphabet.
So what do we do in 2025? Do the exercise alphabet in order working (for me) with a person between a PT and Personal Trainer who 'gets' someone like me and all of my biomechanical issues.
Finally, in 2025 I want to find the 'goldilox zone' of recovery. Most people do "too little for too long or too much too fast". And I've done BOTH: in April fell into a dark place and pulled myself out, but did too little for two long making things last longer and much worse. In this latest setback in November, trying to find the 'goldilox zone' to do just enough to not trigger pain and exercises to build a strong resilent back, core and hips to allow me to simply move better. This setback has been shorter but requires a TON of patience and sticking to what I have described.
But most important? I wake up every day sayingm like you said 'never give up', because I have had periods where I feel better but also need to acknowledge at 56 I dont have the ability recovery like I used to. Walking, biking and enjoying life, which I have done for many good streches in my recovery, the only place I want to hit and stay.
HNY!