I was probably a bit harsh about your daughter, Marian, and I apologise for that. These mother-daughter relationships sure can get complicated!
I'm sure you'll be able to manage fine on your own. You're competent and capable and you will be able to take your time, without worrying about what anyone else thinks.
Do make sure you have that first shower while your daughter is still with you. After that first one, you will have enough confidence to shower without help. Ask her to pick up your next lot of pain meds as well, and stock up any groceries you need. Will one of your daughters be able to take you to your post-op appointment?
I'm sure you'll be able to manage fine on your own. You're competent and capable and you will be able to take your time, without worrying about what anyone else thinks.
Do make sure you have that first shower while your daughter is still with you. After that first one, you will have enough confidence to shower without help. Ask her to pick up your next lot of pain meds as well, and stock up any groceries you need. Will one of your daughters be able to take you to your post-op appointment?
New Zealand
I used my shower seat and I was glad that I had the forsesight several years ago to redo my bath to a shower.