Medic4355 that is so true. There are times i like being a princess but on my own terms not because I have to be. I also do not want to burn my hubby out. It is hard to care for someone 24/7. even when you sleep you worry about the person you are caring for: will they fall, have an accident etc.I have done care giving and it is one of the most draining hard jobs someone can do with a loved one 24/7. I do not want to be one of those: get me that , get me this, oh and can you get me, get me, get me? It tires a caregiver out. I try and remember everything I can and I make a list. I never say a word about the house or laundry or how long it takes to get this or that. Or if hubby forgets something I wanted from the store. I let those things go. I am well care for, fed and loved. I could not ask for more.I do not care what my hubby makes for dinner I am just glad he loves me enough to be with me through these trying times that are getting better and better each day. The more I am able to do for myself without setting me back from over doing is great. Those things I cannot do for myself, I, like you, do ask for help so I can get stronger and go on with our lives with no set backs.