Thank you for all the supportive replies! First,
@Celle, could you please change my thread title to: Put the right knee in...and then the left.
I've been off the forum for a few days in a valiant effort to put my focus on something other than my knees! Mixed results but I have been enjoying some beautiful weather--drove to a nearby orchard to buy some peaches (Yay! Peaches this year!), coffee with a friend, lunch with another friend, chats with neighbors, reminding myself that life is about more than recovery before I plunge into recovery land again.
Today I'm doing last minute things--paying bills, tidying up. I go down to the hospital tonight and then have surgery at 9 tomorrow.
Right knee is holding up fairly well. I'm mostly walking without any aids at this point--carry a cane with me if I'm walking on uneven ground or going for a longer walk but otherwise I'm cane free. Have been off daytime pain meds for 2 weeks and for the past 2 or 3 days, no pain meds at all. Right knee gets sore at times but nothing severe and responds well to rest and ice. I did rent a recliner for this next recovery--I realized that mornings and evenings are going to get cooler and I'll be spending more time inside and my couch is soft and might be hard to stand up from with 2 compromised knees (it's up on risers but still can be difficult). The daybed on the porch and the bed in my bedroom are high enough that I should be fine getting up from them.
So, deep breath and here I go again!