It was probably a shock for her, but sometimes we don't treat our offspring as the adults they have become, and we need to be more honest with them. I'm sure she was upset for you, and possibly feeling guilty herself for not realising how bad your nerve problem really is. We all hide our emotions from our loved ones, I'm sure many of us tell each other more on here than we tell our nearest and dearest. Please don't go on a guilt trip, big hugs travelling north to you xxxx