Thank you so much for all your words; this group is very precious to me. I know that a few times I became friendly with people pre-op and then they never post again; I truly worry about them and still think of them. In my mind I like to believe that they are so happy and active after surgery, they forget to post. Josephine, I did not realize you started this group; you have helped so many and I really think this forum is probably one of greatest purposes of you being in this world. (along with all the patients who have helped) I don't think it is really too much to ask of you to host a small tea at your house for all the members so we can meet ha ha