@Mr.fun, I've been able to put my socks on, though it's a struggle and causes pain in the groin. I use slip-on sneakers for shoes (with elastic shoe laces). I was able to pick things up off the floor from day 1, bending from the waist with my legs straight. I can still do that, but now it causes pain in the groin, especially if I bend my knees.
It's been 5 months now. The pain in my lower thigh is gone, and the numbness on the right side of the thigh is only about 20% of what it was. I still get minor tingling in the area, so the nerves are still healing, but it seems all is well with that part of my leg.
The pain in the upper thigh has improved slightly in the last 4-6 weeks. It's still a little swollen and sore mostly to the right of the incision, and I still have hard, lumpy scar tissue, particularly around the top of the incision. It burns and aches at a 3-4 level, mostly when I'm out walking.
However, the pain in the groin area seems worse than it was. I feel like the scar tissue is pressing against the femoral nerve and the hip flexors, causing pain. Also, I used to be able to lift my leg easily, but now it's difficult and painful to lift my leg. I feel like I'm going backwards in this respect. When I lift my leg, I can feel the muscle tighten under the scar tissue at the top of my incision, resulting in pain. It's eased if I lay flat and gently massage the area.
I'm not sure what to do at this point. If I go back to my OS, I'm quite sure that I'll be scheduled with the PA, who so far has been decidedly less than helpful. I suppose I could try to see a different surgeon, but I'm wondering if that is premature. After all, what can they really do about scar tissue? I'm tempted to just wait a few more months and see if this resolves on its own.
On a separate note, I've been thinking about going to the local community center pool and trying some gentle water exercising. I'm hoping that might help loosen things up a little without applying too much pressure.