BBCG
Former BoneSmart Staff Member
I’m so sorry both you and SisterPat are having adjustment difficulties! My being in bed this time comfortably I think is due to a bed with a motor to raise the bottom, and a comforting leg pillow.
But I get the not knowing what’s too much, too! It is a real adjustment to learn to really listen to your knee! I can vouch for that! I’m just wanting to tidy up the kitchen counters (visitors aren’t as tidy and my spouse can’t see the mess!) and my knee let me know it was unhappy.
I consider this new knee to be a new baby knee. And having raised one baby person and helped raise another, I’ve heard how babies can complain! So, I try to intuit what my knee is saying when it complains, as if it were a real baby of some type, crying, or snuffling, or baaaing like a sheep, or!? It makes little twinges which are its comments, and sometimes, as long as I pay attention, I can hear its tales of woe!
I’ve been someone who did not listen to my body until it has had to yell! So, since the results of not paying attention can feel painful, I figure if I can find a way to listen, then heed the body, maybe I won’t need it to yell at me?!
But I get the not knowing what’s too much, too! It is a real adjustment to learn to really listen to your knee! I can vouch for that! I’m just wanting to tidy up the kitchen counters (visitors aren’t as tidy and my spouse can’t see the mess!) and my knee let me know it was unhappy.
I consider this new knee to be a new baby knee. And having raised one baby person and helped raise another, I’ve heard how babies can complain! So, I try to intuit what my knee is saying when it complains, as if it were a real baby of some type, crying, or snuffling, or baaaing like a sheep, or!? It makes little twinges which are its comments, and sometimes, as long as I pay attention, I can hear its tales of woe!
I’ve been someone who did not listen to my body until it has had to yell! So, since the results of not paying attention can feel painful, I figure if I can find a way to listen, then heed the body, maybe I won’t need it to yell at me?!
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