@Starsfan22 I am sending you one big virtual hug and wishing you a happy and healthy New year!
It can be so frustrating dealing with all the issues life and surgery brings- we all want to run before we can walk but we don’t want to sit on the ODIC bench either, life is just

Husband thing can be solved by moving into a different room, either him or you- it’s what I have done as there was no way my husband would be able to sleep with me being wide awake most of the night- he also snores so loud the furniture vibrates!!!
The weight gain is normal and once you are more mobile it will take care of itself, Covid is a

but you can handle the steps you need to take to keep yourself and your family safe.
Your hip can be many things, such as sleeping in the wrong position, your body adapting to your new stance after surgery etc etc, don’t worry about it for now- if it becomes an issue you can deal with it then.
Your retirement- in every job everyone is replaceable no matter how much we want it to be otherwise. If you truly love your work and never want to quit then don’t- if you are smiling every time you walk in the door, if you love dealing with the problem cases and awkward clients, then stay.
Just remember your job is not your identity, you are so much more and have the potential to be even more- I resisted retirement because I felt I would lose my identity- due to health issues I ended up having the decision made for me and it was hard to adjust to the change, I felt depressed by it BUT it was the best thing that could have happened to me. I ended up learning more about who I am and I like me!
Whatever you decide, make sure the decision makes you smile!
I hope this New Year brings you many smiles!
