I don’t know why so many people do well with canes, in my case I think I’m doing it wrong. My PT told me once that she thought I was overthinking it and trying to figure out how to use it, how much weight to give it, etc rather than sort of ignoring it and letting my body figure out how to use it.
The one time I did find a cane useful was my trip several months before surgery when I used it to go out into the ocean with my grandkids. Although I lost it in a big wave toward the end and had to rely on my husband on the way back. 30 seconds off my feet and it was gone with the current. Luckily it was a cheap one from Walgreens. We were out in the water about an hour and a half though.