It's hard to live with someone who's so task oriented. Would you be able to just sit and watch, 'supervise', while he does the work. If he wants to do all that stuff, let him. It doesn't mean you have to help. They're his projects. You could keep him company as long as you're out of the sun, icing and elevating. To be sure, he doesn't expect you to do all that yard work with that infant knee of yours. You already have a 5 year old to take care of. That's work right there!
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JK, but I'll definitely ask for the pillow!