Catching up. Phew, your thread can move fast. Quick reading, it looks like I mostly missed shoe conversations, phew. Not much I can contribute there. Great to see your great greeting of fall with a glass of wine though!
Not sure if this is helpful (or makes sense), but putting my own shoes/socks on I mostly sit on the edge of the bed, roll back onto my back. Let my surgical leg rotate outward...a bit like a frog, from that point I can reach my feet, put my shoes on and tie them. Always with my arms inside of my leg/knee to avoid accidentally pulling the wrong way and all rotation goes outward. Convenient? Nope. Attractive? Nope....but it gets my shoes on without help or worry. My OS said he wants me to default to arms inside of my legs as a habit. Even after I am fully recovered he said it is still a good habit. Happy Fall everyone