Hello
horsecrazy I'm glad you got some sleep and are taking it easy today. I myself don't go for psychological thrillers, but good for you! I'm sure it'll keep your interest.
I'm from Connecticut, near New Haven, Yale, the shoreline, etc. I believe our friend
sandpiper is from Penna., am I right sandpiper?
Chapel Hill is supposed to be just lovely. I've never been there, but I hear the University is also beautiful and very competative to get into.
There must be many horse people in that area. Do you own many horses and do you manage the care youself?
My daughters took riding lessons when they were young. One of them was pretty decent for her age, and was in a few competitions. The other, I couldn't bear to watch, she had no form, poor thing, and not very good muscle control. We stopped after a few years, I can't quite remember why. They probably lost interest and the costs are high.
The next thing they did was diving. That was another very anxiety provoking sport for a Mom to watch. The one daughter, Lucy who is athletic, did very well, and progressed quickly. The other, not so much.
When they started Lucy doing back dives, I had to check out. Her head came so close to the board! Thank god she never hit. But I mentioned to the coach that it looked like she was going to smack her head on the board, and he replied 'oh sure, they hit their heads..' something to that effect. That's another one I had to stop - I just didn't feel the risk was worth it. I'm a pediatric nurse now for the past 20 years, and always concerned with kid's safety. No broken necks or head injuries for me!
So now she's a cheerleader/gymnastist/coach at a children's gym and teaches and coaches the younger kids. She's also on a cheer team and travels to competitions during the season. Geez, it's never-ending...
Hope you feel better and the aches and pains subside. Don't feel bad if you have to use the cane at times when you hurt - it's all part of it. I used it on and off, not for balance, or because I needed it to walk, but just to take the stress off of the hips if I had to. No big deal in the long run.
Take care!