Nobody's gonna call you a wimp, cuz that would make us all wimps! It's okay to be scared, and it's okay to talk about it here, because we've all been there, and we've all found that the worst of it is over practically from the time we wake up after surgery. (I remember standing in a hot shower the night before my surgery, shivering with nerves, and briefly considering calling the whole thing off. Soooooo glad I didn't!)