Raffs, CATSMUM, Nana moon 27 and Julie-Ann:
I have pulled us Brits together to update you on my news. After 2trips to the Doctor this morning, have had my third. The sore mouth gradually developed into a sore throat and one swollen gland. My bladder which has seemed a little strange for a day or two became painful, it aches, and it became a slow job to go, taking several little dribbles - bladder infection I thought due to catheter!!

Back to surgery, made it just before closing time. Came away with antibiotics, for throat and possibly bladder infection when specimen is tested, and District Nurse booked to call in morning to check bladder is emptying properly. Scan apparently, didn't know that this was a possibility, and I didn't dare to ask what would happen if it wasn't.
All in all not too good a day although I slept well last night, first until two, went to loo, fresh ice, then until 5.30am for loo again, but neither time in pain. Then I went for a nap this afternoon, and woke with very painful and throbbing bladder which is when panic started. If only my appetite would come back, my husband looks so sad and worried when I am not hungry.
I hope everyone has had a better day and wishing you all a good night's sleep.