I seem to be surrounded by superhero healers in my little corner of the universe. And they are very braggish
Oh dear
@Readabook
That’s so challenging when recovery is more than enough to cope with. However it says far more about them than you. Think of girls in High School

, it’s about them, not you. I do understand the frustration too, as I have got to the point when I might react totally out of character to the next (well meaning) person who tells me to do my exercises.
We can’t change others but we can change how we think and feel about them and what they say. Shrug them off, your healing journey is your own and on here we all understand and support you in this.
You’re doing very well, and setbacks happen to us all. We can all irritate any part of our body while gardening or any other physical activities and that’s normal for all of us, the very hard part for you is when it happens during the recovery period. We just don’t bounce and heal quite as well (and quickly) as we once did.
Pain = stop for now, as others have said rest, ice and elevate. Just walk a little and do your activities of daily living until things improve.
In time you’ll look back and see how things have improved. I know I’ve read instances on here of healing continuing well into the second and third years. What the surgeon said, it’s just one OS’s opinion. There will be other surgeons who say different, please don’t take that as a fait accompli. It’s like a competition judge - it’s what they think, not necessarily the consensus.
Thinking of you.