Hi Lyn
@Ellejay
I've replied to you on here rather than derail your thread and cut and pasted and edited my post off yours.
My sis in law text me last night. (My brothers wife) Her mum is very poorly in hospital over at the Philippines. She tried to get a flight for today, they were unaffordable ,something about Chinese New Year. So she flies out tomorrow lunchtime. They've a large mortgage and two young children, so she has to go alone. It's not cheap flying out to there and she was so upset at the cost of the tickets today as they were completely ridiculous, if she'd have had that money though she would've gone today.
My mom is now panicking, because she takes the kids to school via a taxi to my brothers because dad is so I'll with this hernia and can't drive. All he does is sit in his chair He goes into hospital on Monday morning to have that long awaited op. She's worrying how she's going to manage next week and see to dad. Dad is not in a local hospital to where they live but has an NHS funded private hospital as the other waiting lists were too long x x x
My sis in law has now found out that her moms BP is very low and now they are to give her 3units of blood. She is besides herself with worry. She just wants to get there to check her mom is getting the right treatment. My sis in law is a nurse.
Mom has got real probs now. Not only had she got to see to my dad she's got to take my brothers kids to and from school. I'm so frustrated I can't help. If I offer to sit with dad once he's out of hospital that might help but I'm worried sick about the impact on mom. She's 75, her cataract op is still oozing a bit. She is worrying me. My brothers firm will not let him have the week off even though it's special circumstances. He said he's going to try and get Tues off. Dad apparently comes out of hospital Monday evening as a day case and has to be watched for 24 hours x
I could have asked D to take me to my Brothers of a morning to take the kids to school but I cannot do the walk to the school. He will not do a school run because of his obsession with traffic, so I can't ask him. My one daughter has three of her own to take in and as for my other daughter she works full time for a school as administrator.
There is no solution to this situation.
It's hopeless.
Love Nana moon 27 xoxoxoxox