The adhesive goo is a pain to get off. What worked for me was the e45 cream I bought for my first scar. I thought I had a little bruising at first, then realized it was just dirt sticking to the goo!
My DH also has a little trouble remembering I am recovering. Every evening he comes to me and asks if I have any plans for dinner? Meaning what am I cooking! I treated myself to a new pressure cooker this week, & I like it so far. It cooks fast, gets me off my feet pretty quickly, and creates some delicious results. I am 6 weeks out on my second knee, and I'm just now able to do that sort of thing. Plus I make no promises! Everyday I roll the dice and see how it goes!