skigirl ..... isn't it interesting? The places where we're to go for and expect help often fall short .... amazing. When my then husband, and our kids moved to MD, shortly afterwards my mother died of alcoholism, and at that time we were attending a Church of the Brethren Those folks really take care of each other. The pastor came right over, took our house key and, believe it or not, he and his wife took care of our cat, and ...... when we came home, our refrigerator was stuffed with food, there were cards everywhere in the house, and a candle sitting on our kitchen table. And, on my pillow in our bedroom, was a big bag of M&M's I know put there by a dear sweet friend. That is how we should be, and that's how the Brethren are. It made a huge impact on me and I'll never be able to thank them enough.
Hi Pumpkin ..... you know, I never thought of medication. Thank you for mentioning that. I do take quite a few, among them 4 psychotropics. Before I left my X husband, I had a breakdown, thus the 4 meds. Hmmmm ..... you've really given me something to think about. Thank you. I also take a cholesterol drug and one of the meds. I take causes essential tremors, meaning the med. itself makes your hand shake when you try to write or do anything fine. So, then there's a med. for that. It is quite a load and who knows how they may interract. Good idea.
My kids all live sort of "out there" compared to here. It's pretty rural and you have to go to Charlottesville, VA to find much activity. They love their "out there" lives, but I wouldn't anymore. There was a time, yes, but no more.
Again, thanks for the idea ..... just never thought of that.
abby