Alrighty RB, it may be time to join the 'two hip club'. I can relate to everything you have said, and I don't think age matters that much. My two cents on sex, I just saw that thread: We men are the performers, and never ever want to admit that our hips hurt due to sex, right? Well, I'm telling you my new hip works just fine, my new metal ball and socket can rock, yay! But yes, my right hip hurts like hell after sex, let's get that out in the open... I'm experimenting with 'left hip only' sex right now, LOL...
You look like you are in shape, and so am I and that's part of our dilemma this aint supposed to be cuz we stay in shape, right? I'm a true waterman: I surf, I freedive/spearfish,I'm a CG Captain! The next part of your journey is to schedule surgery. I put this off for five years believing nsaids and aspirin and motrin and manhood and swimming would solve it. Nope. My first surgery went great, left hip is painfree. Because I must have two implants, I am looking closely at my second surgery and I am learning some things like solid stem implants may be better than modular, anterior surgery may be better than posterior, resurfacing may be better than THR, so do you your surgeon homework, but believe you will be building a better 'man cave' after surgery than before!