Hey, Ryan,
It's good to hear that you're doing ok post op with your new hip. Your mental/emotional struggles sound normal to me. At around 4 weeks out things slow down for those of us with relatively easy recoveries. Most of the big milestones are behind us...we've ditched the walker, and maybe the cane; don't need refills on the heavy pain meds; the bathroom is almost back to normal because the giant cumbersome toilet aid is going or gone; we can do a lot more for ourselves without really thinking about it, so little victories aren't such a huge deal any more.
Try to keep in mind the improvements you make or notice every day, and throw a little mental confetti to mark them.
As for feeling lost and ignored, I think that's part of the process for some of us, too. I think it helps to view it from the other peoples' perspective. Probably they think that you're fine, and that if you need anything you'll let them know. Maybe they don't want to bother you with calls and chit chat. Most likely, most if not all of them just can't relate to your situation at all, so they don't or can't understand.
Personally I found that almost all the help and cheerleading evaporated after my first week post op. Not that family and friends didn't care, they simply had their their regular lives to lead, they assumed if I needed their help or company I would ask for it. There was no ill intent at all.
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@Layla 's advice and contact a few people and see how things are going with them and the outside world. When I did that, I was mindful to make the call more about them and to be concise and quick to change the subject when they asked about me - because in my experience not many people want details about surgery and recovery. For that sort of thing, Bonesmart was/is the place.
And know that there's a lesson in your experience. You'll know how important contact will be to family, friend, or co-worker when *they* are laid up, and you'll make the effort.
Keep on keepin' on. It won't be long until you're back to real life.
All the best toward a speedy full recovery.