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Roger,
I am glad your wife is doing better. As for normal, I think it changes constantly. I am sure that your back will thank you for the day off. It is hard to do, but there are times when you have to. My husband has helped me realize taking pain meds does not mean I am failing and if I need naps then I should take them. It is odd because I am much more tolerant of other peoples' issues and illness than my own.
Have fun this weekend.
Take care,
Greda
 
Twinkletoes, a bunch of years ago, my wife wanted to take classes for ballroom dancing. But they were only doing West Coast Swing at the time. And I just hate the idea of it all. But I LOVED it. And we had a great time. I don't step on toes and I really don't do anything bad enough to keep people from admiring my dance partner... The guys job dancing is to make the gal look good, right? Sadly, we haven't been for a long time and I think I have 2 left feet again. And really, jumping off that ATV was really interesting... And fun, and only once.

Greda, I think we are ALL more tolerant of others than of ourselves.

I didn't make it to the Jeep Show, had plenty to do with helping my son work on his truck (its drivable now!) and of course, spending time at the hospital visiting my wife. She was moved back to the Long Term Acute Care center Saturday, and Sunday was our 29th Anniversary. This summer sure is a bust so far.

Still sore, but not so bad. My nerve issues across my cheek, neck and into my shoulder has really bothered me the last couple days. Losing sleep. Something to talk about with my doc though...
 
Roger ~ Happy belated Anniversary! You're so right...In dancing, the man's job is to make the lady look good! He is the frame and she is the picture! When you and your wife are better and up to a little dancing, just get out there and have fun! Don't worry about having two left feet.

I know exactly what you mean about this summer being a bust so far. I will always remember 2012 as The Year of the Knee. We've cancelled two European cruises already this year, but I'm hoping that we'll be able to make another one in a little more time...
 
Hmm.... dancing. I might try it once I'm recovered. I danced at a wedding a month before surgery and was told by another guest I reminded him of a walrus trying to climb a tree. I suppose I can improve.....:yikes:
 
Geeze, Historian.....what "lovely" friends you have that would make such a statement! Who knows....you may have a whole new career now as a Dance Star now that you have those new knees!!!
 
Dance away Neil...

Hmm, quick catch up. Spent yesterday out and about, morning and early afternoon I was part of a trail cleanup. About 20 miles of trail covered and better than 1/2 ton of trash collected.
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I had the front doors off the Jeep to make it easier and quicker to get in and out of the Jeep to pick up trash. Nevermind it was actually fun.

[Bonesmart.org] Roger got a new left knee

Trust me, this downhill on loose rock was steeper than the photo shows, and narrower. The guy driving this 60 year old M37 military truck had his hands full with no power steering. But it was fun to watch it on the trail, instead of sitting in a museum someplace.

Afterwards, I got cleaned up, and went in to visit my wife. She is doing good, healing still. And yet, still more time to go. But her spirits are back up for now, so thats something!

Yes, I drove into the city without the doors. Fun, and made me nervous. Even though I added a mirror on the drivers side, I kept wondering when I'd get pulled over, but even a couple cops waved at me. Friendly waves, not "who are you fooling" waves.

I'm sore today from all the work yesterday, but not in pain. Big difference. And a happy change.

Hope everyone is staying cool in this heat, and safe from the wildfires...
 
Hi Roger

I love the trucks and my word those hills look steep!! I'm pleased all is good with your knee after your work. Good wishes to you and your wife.
 
I practically don't think of my knee, even in rough terrain. I slipped a bit on rocks yesterday, and my mind went off the deep end with what I could hurt in my back.
 
Geeze, Historian.....what "lovely" friends you have that would make such a statement! Who knows....you may have a whole new career now as a Dance Star now that you have those new knees!!!

It was meant good naturedly. Since I don't normally dance, people didn't know what to expect. As the bride said afterward, "wow, you have moves!"

This was the last day I did any significant walking before surgery. I went on a two mile hike the morning of the wedding. I guess I wanted to celebrate more than one event.
 
As I mentioned in Neil's thread, I feel like I'm up to my armpits in Alligator stew. So many things needing my attention, so many things going on I have no control of, and so many things that were OK for me to let slip away... Ahhh, Sanity, return soon please!!!

Let me see, Knee. IT Band is still a minor issue, but much improved. I find myself kneeling on that knee more and more. Hard surfaces are still uncomfortable. And strange. Yes, it clicks now and again, and I can make it make other clunk noises (usually to annoy others!!!). But it isn't something I really think about much if at all. Trust me, you WILL get there!!!!

My back, I have a spot that is more sore than the rest. Don't know why, but will discuss with my surgeon next month. 1 year. Wow... Because of my limited duty situation, the occupational med folks are getting anxious to have me either cleared by my doc for full duty, or make plans to transfer me as a disability issue. The thought of working in cubicles sickens me. I love my desert!!! But, this just re-enforces my slow and easy plan of recovery. I really believe my only limitations will be weights as tolerated. And being off meds all this time is a serious plus in my favor. I AM still a long ways from being "normal", but working on it.

Work. Alligators! We thought we had an easy schedule for the summer. Something we aren't used to. Nope, our schedule has bounced from easy to packed solid to well, not sure where it is right now. But, Our big event for August that was three weeks long is now just two. I don't have to try and reschedule with my surgeon now... Although, I'm sure something will change, my supervisor has that day marked off on the calendar as if its the most important thing in the world. And to me, it might just be.

Wife... Alligators. Part of her incision from the last surgery opened a bit. This will require another small surgery to close as well as still more time on bed rest. As sort of a milestone, tomorrow is three months to the day... Her emotional/mental state isn't very good. She doesn't see past this week. Or even today sometimes. Its a horrible strain on her. They are looking at, letting her come home for a week or so, before doing the next surgery. As luck has it, her previous surgeon left town. Why? I haven't a clue. But since he was in a different hospital, and the hospital this long term care center is in has a similar surgeon, we are hoping to just get insurance to keep everything in the same single facility this time. But being home for a bit will do wonders for her, but I have concerns about home health for wound treatment and other care. Probably the same concern insurance will have. Her case worker is on it, and we will see. Upside, she has been out of bed the last few days walking and is doing pretty good really. Her stamina is about where I expected, but her strength and balance are better than expected. She also has had the feeding tube out for over a week and her blood work is still reasonable. Well, reasonable for HER...

Another issue for me that fits the Alligators category... I am having difficulty sleeping. Between my wife's issues/condition, no time for house work/yard work on the weekends, balancing all that I do already and tackling her things as well, I'm beat and drained. I don't spend much time on the computer, at least, not as much as I used to. My mind drifts too readily away from what I need to be on topic with. I HOPE, this resolves with my wife's improved condition soon... The tingling/sensitive skin issue from the nerve damage is another sleep issue. And I doubt that is as readily resolved.

My daughter got a huge promotion at work. She was making a bit more than minimum wage, customer service position. She had an impromptu interview from a competitor that offered her a significant raise. When she explained to her manager, seems there was something afoot to begin with and they rushed to finish getting her this promotion. She works for a hotel chain and had been a front desk clerk. Her major in college (before she took the year off) had been resort and hotel management. The regional managers noticed her early, and talked about moving her to be mentored in sales and marketing. Well. The interview set off a chain reaction. She will still do front desk, but only 2 days a week. And got a raise of a buck an hour (a quarter more than the competitor's offer!)... But the other three days, will be sales and marketing training. And she gets $1.75 raise for those days. She has a title as assistant director of sales and marketing for that property, but will eventually be the regional director's assistant for several properties. With the title, she gets, a company laptop, cell phone and business cards with her name on them. Not generic for the chain. Needless to say, we are all very very happy for her. And, she has been an ambassador for the county Chamber of Commerce for the last few months as well. GREAT stuff for a resume when you are just 22... She starts school for business classes in the fall.

My son's summer job isn't as expected. Started 2 weeks later than planned. But is management related, pays what was promised, and his major is Construction Management. They have him doing simple things, but meaningful, nonetheless. And he does understand, that it is still management experience on his resume. He has one semester left for his Bachelor's degree. Then maybe he can settle in to a job so he can start his family. His wife's summer job is going OK, but she isn't getting as far ahead as she'd like.

Enough good, more Alligators. A few weeks back, my truck started acting funny, I threw some parts at it, but it needs to go to a shop. I'm not flexible enough in the back to do what needs to be done. I HATE other people working on my vehicles. My Jeep acted up for my daughter when she and some friends took it down state... They had a good time anyway, and I threw parts at it and it seems fine again. Son's truck is still not done. But is drivable. Little things he hasn't had time to come out and take care. That should change this weekend.

If my wife can't come home by the weekend, I'm going to a Scottish Highland Games Festival. Kilted of course. If she does come home, well, I'll go next year, but will likely wear a kilt anyway to irritate her...

I really hope everyone's summer is going better than mine. Stay as cool as you can folks!!!
 
Wow, Roger, I was just thinking we hadn't heard from you in reports recently and little wonder!
Hope the stew stops boiling for you soon and settles down to just a mild simmer!
 
And another "Wow", Roger, that is quite alot on your plate.
I will pray for your family and that you and your wife continue towards full health.
And congratulations to your daughter, that is quite the accomplishment! She has a great and successful career ahead of her.
Enjoy that kilt!
 
Roger,
Alligators abound, all the best to you are your wife for her speedy recovery. You must be proud of your kids, they sound like they are on the way to successful careers.
 
Been reading, and have a TON to read still. First off, my name is Roger. I live in Tooele, UT. And *I* used to have a bad left knee.

Before I retired from the Navy in 2001, I was already on waivers from physical testing due to left knee pain. But with NSAIDs and mild pain relievers I was pretty much OK. I just knew running wasn't a good idea. in 2004, my daughter wanted to try running, so I ran some with her. At first I thought I was going to be OK. But after a month, I knew I should stop. Consulted my PA (Physician's Assistant) and just went back on Motrin for a while.

Fast forward to late 2008, going up and down stairs was starting be painful. And noisy. I had moved from California to Utah and had a new PA. She was concerned, but again started at stretching and Motrin 800s. At first, got better. But then it decayed after a few more months. Finally in the summer of 2009, I decided I needed an orthopedic doc. I asked a bunch of folks for a good ortho, and one name kept coming up. Guess who I saw? Well, I didn't get the actual Surgeon till later, but dealt with his PAs. On my first appointment had an Xray. When the Xray was ready, the PA came in and right off the bat, asked, "When do you want to schedule that replacement?" I'll tell you, that hurt. And made me feel pretty defeated. We talked more about options. Not many at that point as I had less than 1.5mm left to the Meniscus. That visit wrapped up with a cortisone injection. That helped a lot, and lasted about 4 months.

Next up, in November of 2009 I got my first round of gel injections. After the third injection I felt really really good. But in April of 2010, it was pretty worn off. So, another round of gel. The first injection was good, the second was OK. The third was so-so. No real improvement. By the end of June I was in real pain. Back to the doc, and a new Xray. NOT good...

I was bone on bone and wearing grooves. Well then, I guess its tiem to discuss that replacement you mentioned a year ago! So we discussed which knee and why. Because of my size and weight, and that I desired to become far more active than I'd been, the Stryker Triathlon was the knee of choice. They would have scheduled me right away, but I had just changed jobs and needed to build up some vacation and sick time. They gave me a 1/2 shot of cortisone and off I went.

Long story shortened, on 8 November, 2010 I had my left knee replaced. I remember the next morning being made to get up and walk. I was still groggy that day. But I was up at least twice. And I met the CPM machine. I was drugged up and it didn't bother me... The next more of the same, but remember more, and again walking was encouraged. They were also quite mean, removing my pain pump and catheter at the same time. MAKING me get up and move around. On the 11th, I went home. I THOUGHT my truck had legroom... HA! I never really realized what a pain my multilevel home could be.

So I have a close friend that does outpatient physical therapy. I was able to use her. And I KNEW she wasn't going to be easy on me. I didn't do as well as I should have, but well enough to satisfy my doc. When my friend suggested an outpatient therapist, Thats where I went. The Monday after Thanksgiving was the beginning of the real torture. It was not much fun. But I applied myself and we found that my body was healing and responding very well to therapy. I had some trouble reaching 0* extension. I hated that man... And couldn't wait to get back for the next therapy session.

Now I KNOW my results aren't normal. In fact seriously above average. My therapist hasn't had these results before me. I was discharged from therapy in January after I got to 141* three visits. I'm a good sized guy. I'm 6'3" and currently about 280 pounds. I have a lot of muscle in my legs from running and cycling years ago. And with swelling, I couldn't go any further. And my regular knee was only measured at 144...

I'm back on a bike again. I'm way out of shape. But have dropped 20 pounds since November. I've also been on the elliptical machine, but hate it because I can't get a good stride. I'm on the treadmill too. I tried jogging back in January but it felt really weird. But mid March my wife and I started playing racquetball again. She has had her own health issues so its good for her to be moving as well. And, I'm jogging a bit in spurts on the treadmill. I just took my first run outside today. 1.27 mile loop and I ran better than a quarter of that.

So it has been 24 weeks and I feel like I have my life back. I know I have more recovery ahead, but mostly just waiting for the swelling to go down. I did a lot of pre-surgery stretching and exercises. I went in as prepared as I could. I busted my tail in therapy. And did everything at home my therapist and doctor wanted me to do. A week ago, I had a follow up with my doc, and he was happy to hear me playing racquetball, and happy to hear I was running. Didn't bat an eye. And he measured me without letting me warm up or stretch. I hadn't been measured since January. So I was very happy to get 138*.:yay:

Questions? Comments? I'll answer what I can.

Roger
Welcome Roger. Can I be you when I grow up? Sounds like you had a good surgical outcome and you applied yourself 100% to PT. I am 3wks to my LTKR and I hope my story reads similar. Trying my best to do all the stretching and exercising I can on recumbent bike. Looking forward to seeing your progression in coming weeks.
Sounds like you are really improving! I am at about 17 weeks and have more pain now than I did the day after surgery. Maybe it is because I stopped taking the Percocet about a month ago. Swelling is probably the biggest factor. My OS had me take a month off from PT because he thought that was making my knee angry. I'm angry now and just hoping things will get better. He did say it could take up to a year! I'm going to go to the fitness center tomorrow and ride the bike and possibly do some weights for upper body. I am also going to look in to getting a hybrid bike for some riding to help my knee and take away some of the boredom.[/quote
 
Leisa, I have't read my first post in a while... Of course you can be like me when you grow up! I have become friends with my therapist. Sort of. All I asked of him was to not hurt me, but don't let me hurt myself. I found it too easy to push really hard, I was obsessed with ROM numbers. He recognized the days I was willing to hurt myself, and changed my routine frequently. I learned to trust him and the rest just sort of happened. So of course, I had to see him for my back recovery. And that has been a very interesting rabbit hole in its own right!

Pumpkin, I am quite proud of them both. Not sure what I did right, but they are both people I love spending time with. (i blame my wife for this!)

1Elisea, prayers appreciated. My daughter is happy, no doubt. More money means she can, in no order, save more for her next car, buy more clothes, and buy more shoes. Of course she needs to dress nicer on her sales days, but I think she will manage. The Scottish Festival was fun, kilted of course!

Jo, at the moment it feels like just a gentle, rolling boil. Sadly, I am used to that! I moved a few heavy things the last week or so. Made me sore for the day, but felt fine the next day. Even lifted my English Mastiff and set her in my daughters lap. I think it surprised the dog more than the daughter!
 
Its been an exciting couple of weeks around here. My wife has been home for the last two weeks. She still has an open wound, that is healing slowly (appointment yesterday was very positive!). In a few more weeks, they will try and close it again and she will be back in the hospital for a few weeks. Hoping that will close and stay closed then.

I went with my daughter this evening to shop for cars. She knows what she wants, what reasonable prices to pay for what options. She drove one and afterwards gave the owner a detailed description of what she felt of the car. I was really quite proud, as she ran down a list nearly the same as mine. And we didn't even talk about till after we left. She is shrewd and knowledgable. And patient. Proof that she has been listening to dear old Dad... (Sniff!)

Last weekend my son got his truck to pass safety. And promptly took it out of town. Trial by fire! Anyway, the truck is running fine, he drove it back here this afternoon, and I have some welding to do on his ATV trailer. He did have a little trouble with battery cables on the truck, but he solved it himself...
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Bigger tires will make it look better. But that will have to wait till he has more money... Although, it sure looks better on the street, than in my driveway!

I talked this week with a former co-worker. His wife had a knee replaced almost two weeks ago. They hadn't been educated what to expect very well. I invited her to join us here, hope to see her here.

At work, I FINALLY was able to get in and out of the high reach bucket again. LAST year I showed the following photo...
[Bonesmart.org] Roger got a new left knee

Getting in was the easy part. ONCE I got over my total abject fear of falling. I don't think I have EVER felt this deep fear of falling in my life. And getting in 5 times in one day, didn't make it any easier. For some reason, that first step on the outside of the bucket is the hardest. Getting out was a lot easier than I expected.

I'm approaching the one year mark of my accident. Its really been a rough time. But I am doing well, and see a good time ahead. I really really don't want another year like we have had. I will try to get on here more often now.
 
[Bonesmart.org] Roger got a new left knee
Great update, Roger! So happy that your wife is home for a while---must be heaven for her. And your kids obviously make you very proud. You're still improving yourself and gaining more confidence. You all deserve to be able to put the past year behind you and move forward to bigger and better things. You all certainly have my prayers and good wishes.
 
They have an apparatus at the gym that you support yourself on your elbows and forearms, so you can do leg raises. Great abdominal exercise. Some months ago i tried it, and while it didn't hurt, it didn't feel quite right just hanging with my bodyweight. Now I can do a couple raises bringing my knees up. But not my legs out straight. I'll get there. Someday.

Judy, yes. I am quite proud of my kids. I have to blame my wife, as I'm certain they refused to listen to me as much as they should have! :egypdance: :egypdance:

I see my surgeon in a bit over a week. I'm sure to get a clean bill of health. My occupational med people will be happy. They have been anxious to clear me for normal duty, or move me to an office job.

Anyone reading this, and not familiar with my story, first, your knee will heal in time, and let you do amazing things. I was back on my bike, getting in shape, when I crashed and nearly destroyed my back. Surgery and some hardware and time, and I feel pretty good. But I won't be jumping off ATVs anytime soon. Just know, my TKR gave me the patience I am usually in short supply of, to get me though back surgery, wearing a hardshell brace, then a hard cervical collar. And a whole lot more PT than with the knee. I am in the gym, with weights as I can tolerate. And I tolerate more now than even a month ago. Patience BoneSmarties!
 
They have an apparatus at the gym that you support yourself on your elbows and forearms, so you can do leg raises. Great abdominal exercise. Some months ago i tried it, and while it didn't hurt, it didn't feel quite right just hanging with my bodyweight. Now I can do a couple raises bringing my knees up. But not my legs out straight. I'll get there. Someday.

Judy, yes. I am quite proud of my kids. I have to blame my wife, as I'm certain they refused to listen to me as much as they should have! :egypdance: :egypdance:

I see my surgeon in a bit over a week. I'm sure to get a clean bill of health. My occupational med people will be happy. They have been anxious to clear me for normal duty, or move me to an office job.

Anyone reading this, and not familiar with my story, first, your knee will heal in time, and let you do amazing things. I was back on my bike, getting in shape, when I crashed and nearly destroyed my back. Surgery and some hardware and time, and I feel pretty good. But I won't be jumping off ATVs anytime soon. Just know, my TKR gave me the patience I am usually in short supply of, to get me though back surgery, wearing a hardshell brace, then a hard cervical collar. And a whole lot more PT than with the knee. I am in the gym, with weights as I can tolerate. And I tolerate more now than even a month ago. Patience BoneSmarties!
Roger, I'm so happy for you all that your wife was able to spend some time at home. [we ladies need that home time for sure] Sounds like you are recovering well and you are right, you DO NOT need another year as the last. I pray for health, happiness and laughter in the coming year for you and yours.
 
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