10th week report -
I feel great! Every day I am grateful for this surgery and for the miracle of this bit of stainless steel, titanium and ceramic that replaced the used up hip that was there. I'm grateful for the surgeon's skill, the kind and competent nurses and those that supported them so I could literally get on my feet. I'm grateful for my loving and patient fella, who knew I was still in here - huddled in a dark cave of pain, and waited to find me again. I'm grateful for my friends and family who - though most living afar - wrapped me in concern and sent me care packages with pyjamas and chocolate and tiny birds. And I'm grateful for the lovely folk here on BoneSmart who went before and lit the path of recovery!
You that come behind me, here are my words to keep you buoyed up:
1. This is your recovery - not your neighbor's or your Aunt Sue's. You must do it your way.
2. Consider taking on a totem animal such as the tortoise or the snail. Remind yourself that there are many things best done slow - aging wine cannot be rushed, love-making, creating a culinary masterpiece - all of these are better when done slowly.
3. Surround yourself with positive people. Turn naysayers from your door kindly but firmly.
4. If you have so much as one creative cell in your body engage it. You will be glad of it. After all this could be the later you were waiting for!
5. Consider the miracle of how you came to get a new hip - all the circumstances that were involved to make it happen.
Okily dokily - time for me to get out of bed and (gently) seize the day!