Hello there
cabbageandbacon Sounds like your having some normal aches and pains and wierd feelings. My hips felt like two big cement blocks for 2 or 3 weeks after surgery, and I walked with my backside back and sort of up in the air like a monkey! It was hard to straighten out. My hips felt very stiff, too. It was hard to stretch my left leg all the way out flat when laying down because it hurt in the groin area and was so tight and stiff there, probably from tissue trauma during surgery and internal swelling after. I had to sleep with my knee bent up for a couple of weeks because of that.
By 3 1/2 weeks I felt I didn't need a cane for stability anymore, so I stopped using it. But I had pretty bad knee pain, so my physio told me not to stop it yet. The knee pain went away after a week or two of being back on the cane.
If my legs aren't being supported well with a firm pillow between them when I'm lying on my side, the leg/hip on top will hurt, almost like it can't support it's own weight and is "hanging" and pulling. Do you use a pillow between your legs for support to sleep on your side?
The feeling you have of the hip pushing up I haven't had. But your hip is different now and it's all still healing and the tissues are still inflammed, probably swollen inside, so it's bound to feel wierd. My awkward feelings eventually lessened, though. I would imagine yours will, too. But of course, I would report any new pain or serious to the doctor to be sure all is well.
Also, they say that we heal faster when we're not in pain, so don't suffer by decreasing your pain meds too soon. It won't help in the long run, I'm told. Being pain-free encourages healing because all of the stress hormones aren't being released and there's less tissue aggravation and inflammation going on. I'm sure that one of the moderators, like
bottomshollow or
Poppet can explain it much better!
Keep up the good work!

Sounds like your on the road to recovery, but it does take time.