Mitzie, It is so difficult to challenge a person who seems to think he is in charge. but, he is not in charge of your recovery. If he hears that your doctor said to cut back and that you do not want to be in pain, but does it anyway, he is an idiot.
Here is what I would do---when you go to PT ask for the owner or the manager. Tell him that you do not want to be in pain and specifically, you do not want the knee forcibly bent by the PT. Your doctor agrees with you and also wants them to cut back from pain to discomfort. If the PT does it again, you could sue them. It is assault like a person in a bar hitting you in the face. A medical person cannot do anything to you against your will.
Tell him/her you want a different pt--one who will listen to you, the person who is paying.
the customer is always right. If someone has the audacity to do it again, I would get up and walk out of there.
Remember--You are paying for this service---the PT needs your money for his salary---he HAS to do what you say---it is actually the law. I would hate someone who would bend my knee until I cried and he would only do it once.
We all want someone to save us when we are in an unpleasant situation--but really, we have to save ourselves. If necessary, print my response and read it to them. But, they do not need to bend your knee until you are crying--that is really stupid.
If they bend the knee to the point that it is irritated, it will loose rom not gain it. If your knee is swollen and painful after pt--have they helped you at all???NO they have not. My doctor told me that my knee would improve for upt o a year. What is your rom? flexion (bending) and extension--the ability to put your knee flat on a table. If you can ride a bike, it is over 90 degrees. If it is 100 degrees there is no excuse whatsoever for someone to force a bend like that.
I think you can handle them--- just remind them who is paying the bill. Would you let a clerk at the drugstore twist your wrist? Be careful not to overdo at this point too. You simply cannot sit or stand for more than 15 minutes right now, so do not put yourself in the those positions. Rest. if you go to the grocery store, ride around in those little carts and have some fun.