I must be strange...I never clean(ed) in preparation for visitors. I did prepare places for visitors to sleep and special baskets with toiletries, food, etc, for them, but never did unusual cleaning for their arrival. I always figured they could take me as I was....lol. Granted, my house was/is never a disaster, but I didn't do anything special in the way of cleaning for visitors, and still don't. My MIL was the kind that would quietly find places where she could help such as weeding my garden, folding laundry, washing dinner dishes, etc. She never tried to make me feel inadequate, just had a helpful spirit and loved to be needed. She did, however, mutter under her breath that everything in my cupboards was too high for her to reach and wish I placed things where she could reach them.......lol. I finally got the hint and bought a step stool for her use.