Wanttoride.....I think you do need to slow yourself down a bit. You are not going to have resolution to any of this immediately. Recovery just doesn't work that way.
It may be likely that no one will tell you that THIS is absolutely what you should do. Most doctors give you options, their opinion, and advice but YOU must decide what is best for you to do once you gather information. It's a personal thing.
You seem so worked up that you are making yourself more stressed. Please try to be calm and go at this process methodically, over some time....not now, now, now.
You obtained your surgery notes and are going to get an appointment for a second opinion. This is good. Your current surgeon says he manipulated your knee well under anesthetic. That is a good thing. He's right that it is a good sign to obtain that much movement. It means you have the potential over time to obtain a similar ROM on your own. But you MUST allow yourself and your stressed body time to heal. You cannot rush it....as much as you would like to.
Are you still taking your pain medications on a schedule throughout the day and night? Are you icing and elevating your knee VERY, VERY frequently through the day and night? These are things that will help you if you keep them up. You have swelling (fluid) in your knee. Your body's lymph system takes days, weeks, maybe longer to absorb and remove that fluid. It's a slow process.
Please understand that I care about you. I'm not trying to minimize any of your feelings, but I am worried that you are stressing yourself out unnecessarily. Keeping yourself in this state of worry cannot possibly help with your nerve issues.
You may not be able to control the things going on within your body, but you CAN control your reaction to them. Be proud of the positive steps you are taking toward getting to the bottom of all this. Be happy you have people who care about you and are willing to help. Please try to focus on the good things you have going for you and the rest of this will sort itself out.
It may be likely that no one will tell you that THIS is absolutely what you should do. Most doctors give you options, their opinion, and advice but YOU must decide what is best for you to do once you gather information. It's a personal thing.
You seem so worked up that you are making yourself more stressed. Please try to be calm and go at this process methodically, over some time....not now, now, now.
You obtained your surgery notes and are going to get an appointment for a second opinion. This is good. Your current surgeon says he manipulated your knee well under anesthetic. That is a good thing. He's right that it is a good sign to obtain that much movement. It means you have the potential over time to obtain a similar ROM on your own. But you MUST allow yourself and your stressed body time to heal. You cannot rush it....as much as you would like to.
Are you still taking your pain medications on a schedule throughout the day and night? Are you icing and elevating your knee VERY, VERY frequently through the day and night? These are things that will help you if you keep them up. You have swelling (fluid) in your knee. Your body's lymph system takes days, weeks, maybe longer to absorb and remove that fluid. It's a slow process.
Please understand that I care about you. I'm not trying to minimize any of your feelings, but I am worried that you are stressing yourself out unnecessarily. Keeping yourself in this state of worry cannot possibly help with your nerve issues.
You may not be able to control the things going on within your body, but you CAN control your reaction to them. Be proud of the positive steps you are taking toward getting to the bottom of all this. Be happy you have people who care about you and are willing to help. Please try to focus on the good things you have going for you and the rest of this will sort itself out.
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