TKR Lavender's getting a new left knee for Christmas

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Hello Holly @lavender

So sorry to hear about your delay and your husband's experience to get blood tests.
I agree, that adding stress to those who are already under stress is not a good thing.

Good to hear that you did not need your walker today and that the two of you still had the opportunity to visit your most beloved park.

One of my friends took me out to lunch and then we went for a lovely walk in the grounds of a castle.
I am still using one cane when outside, but she could see that I have improved since she saw me about 10 days ago.

The trees are just starting to turn lovely Autumnal colours and the weather is still pleasant here in Dublin.

Take care,
Cathie
 
@lavender Sorry about the problems getting the blood tests.
Glad your blood sugar is doing okay!
Also very glad that the water in your park has gone down so the birds are more relaxed.
I am hoping that we have a colorful fall. We've had so much rain it should be good for color!
 
Hello Holly @lavender

Wishing you and your husband a lovely day in your special park form a warm & sunny Dublin..
Thinking of you both,
Cathie
 
Hi everyone and hope you are having a nice day looks t @marmora I am happy you had the chance to go for a nice walk . How neat to walk on the grounds of a castle must be amazing to see a castle. Always loved movies about the days of Merlin and Kings and Queens . We have a place not far away that in the 40s was built by a man for his wife it is now a tourist attraction.

My Mom and Dad went to see it when they were dating on a day trip and it was built with underground passage ways hidden passages throughout and at that time till he went bankrupt and people went in and took things gold fixtures in the bathroom back at the time it was built no one would have seen this sort of thing in a city very often. It has a indoor bowling alley and so big that they day we went to see it too on a day trip tour the year we got married we had to decided what parts we would like to see just not enough time to see it all. There were stables that we attached to the house by passageways and so sad to see that he had servants quarters we did not go to this part of the house but saw pictures the rooms aside for them to sleep were merely a small space with a tiny cot and a shame to see that he kept them this way. So many of the beautiful furnishings that we were told about had been auctioned off many years ago to pay the taxes and they were trying when we went to see it to locate them and buy them back.

To see a real castle and its size would be amazing wonder how they build things this large back then. It was not so long ago you had your surgery @marmora and to be walking without your cane most of the time you are doing really well. You should be proud of yourself for all of the things you do and for being such a caring person to. It makes your feel good to when someone mentions they see you doing good need encouragement and think this is one of the most important parts of recovery.
Ireland looks like a very beautiful place and one of the places along with Scotland and England I would like to visit one day. Wishing you a wonderful day and looking back you will see how many new things you can do again and how nice to be able to get around like before .

Hi @tiredwife nice to hear from you enjoy receiving your posts and thank you. We have had a lot of rain this summer to and still not too many leaves are turning nice to have them on the trees for a while longer. Last year at this time of the year in early September the leaves were falling and some of the trees did not get a chance to turn before they fell. Love October sun shining on the trees air a little crisp and cozy feeling in a sweater.

@Jozilla Hi Jozilla hope things are going well with your new knee and must feel nice to have your surgery all finished. Hope you are being well cared for with your medications. I think I heard somewhere to that we only had a few more days of summer to and hard to believe that summer had gone by so fast. My husband just told me tha on our calender the first day of autumn is on the 23rd hard to believe. We have two high schools and three public schools nearby and remembering the day they put out their signs wishing the kids a nice summer now seems like just the other day summer holidays and now the signs are welcoming the back to school. Time seems to go so fast now as I get older.

As we were leaving the clinic the other day I noticed a form asking for our input on how we felt about the clinic and concerns. I took it home and filled out a survey on line. I received a reply and request to phone the manager of this service at head office wish they had a toll free number but this one is long distance and know once I start to explain it might get expensive. I expressed my views on how my idea of professional treatment . The mantra on the wall leading into this clinic states that they expect their employees to show respect courtesy and compassion for their patients and that is not the way they operate.
 
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@lavender Some of our leaves are changing. We haven't had a really pretty fall in many years.
Maybe your comment on the survey will help change things. I don't know why people go into a job dealing with the public if they can't be courteous! We are lucky with hubby's OS office, everyone working there are really nice and helpful and he sees his surgeon every visit. From what I read on the threads not everyone gets to see their surgeon.
Hubby had a long day so is laying in bed icing, elevating and watching Netflix on our tablet. We had to stop and get gas for the car, then off to his check up with his OS. (OS was very pleased with his handy work). Then we went and ate some lunch, stopped by the pharmacy to get his pain meds. Went on base to get his other meds and get a few groceries. (pop over to my thread if you want to see a photo of the giant grapes we bought) That was long enough to tire him out some.
You have a great afternoon!
 
Hi Yesterday was very busy. Lots to do but stopped at the park on our way. Picked up our paper and then off to have lunch . The restaurant is offering discounts this month and so we took our envelope which has to be kept sealed to see what we might win. Arrived at the place we go in the next town away and noticed that there were four tour buses there all having lunch and thought we might have to leave it for another day. Trying to find a parking space and then noticed two more buses pulling up. Then two mobility buses and I wanted to go just too crowded with this amount of buses and although it is very roomy not comfortable moving in around places this crowded.

This restaurant has never been this busy in our visits and nice to see them so busy but my husband said he would go in and check. The owner noticed we were waiting and said he was sorry they would have a 45 minute wait. I wanted to go but after driving the 30 minute drive to get there decided to wait and just sit in the sun out in our car. He said they would come out and get us when a table was ready. Hoping we would stay and so we waited. During our wait two more buses pulled up and noticing a few more were loading up to leave. Surprised to see a friend of ours our favorite waitress who had left to go to South America with her husband to live talked to her for a few minutes and then in to lunch. Hope you have a great weekend Holly
 
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Love the two new avatars you have posted, the butterflys are beautiful.
I am glad to hear the resturant treated you well after you had to wait so long for service.
Have you heard anything about a surgery date?
 
Hi @Pumpkln Hi hope you are feeling good and you knee is calm. I just thought I would post something different for my avatar as I have figured out how to do it with the post by Josephine just kept making it the wrong size before. I decided to change it to the the butterfly they are just so pretty. No word yet on a surgery date and wondering if it will be the 6 month date he mentioned at my appointment at the end of July said 4 to 6 months estimate time.

I was hoping for November but when I went to my cortisone shot he did not say anything when I mentioned I would be waiting for a phone call just so many people having this surgery done here. The surgeon that my Mom has is supposed to have a shorter waiting list but not sure if this is true like both surgeons but will stick with mine he is great. The 6 month date should fall around January longer wait then last surgery but think I was moved up last time because of a cancellation.

The cortisone shot really hurt but is is helping a lot and wondered why he suggested it as he did not do it before my first surgery he must have thought it would relieve the unstableness a bit just anxious but know he will get me in a soon as he can. My husband still thinks they will call me before November just believes it hope it comes fast want to get it over with and ready to go again for walks next spring.

He did apologize and said he was trying to make the waiting times shorter. I am really happy that I did ask for the surgery when I did as I would be waiting to be put on the list. I am waiting for a call at the end of the month from the Nurse who is in charge of all surgery tests and will talk to my family doctor at my three month check on Monday about how the tests came out for my iron on my last blood test that I went for last Monday.

Wish it would just happen ready all but purchase of a bath seat which will fit our tub and the rest looks ready to go. Hope you are not having any pain and are still having time to go swimming nice to relax this way and it was really nice receiving your post thanks so much. Wishing you a great weekend Holly
 
Yesterday we had a very busy day but it was really nice. Morning our weekly visit to have our breakfast envelope month so to celebrate their 18 year anniversary the owners have made up envelopes told yesterday there were 10,000 stuffed and handing them out you can win your meal free or a discount off of it.

Then off to get a car wash which is offered each Saturday by the dealer that we purchased our car from free of cost. Then to see the movie The Maze and then to the park after it was over still early afternoon as the show started at eleven am.

Walking through the park up to the bridge we sat on the bench which is usually sunny and just enjoyed the scenery. Sitting talking and then looking in front of us we saw a very old dear friend of ours. Friends for almost 40 years and a little while since we saw her. She was looking for a group of people she was meeting and she was lost so she sat with us and talked. The people she was looking for are friends of ours as well she received her invitation by email and the arrangements were not made enough ahead of time so only five were told supposed to be sent by word of mouth so only 5 actually got their invitation. Had a chance to visit for a little bit with them to how much catching up although we have seen many of the five on our own out and about trips. We met her when we first started working at the store and she was one of the women who was at my Bridal shower. Very nice people and friendships that stay the same even though we don't get together often but seems the same as you were together just a few days before. Made so many good friends during those years did not seems to be a competitive atmosphere just worked together and got along then

She is now living in a city a few hours away and is now on her own her husband died around the same time as my Dad died he had cancer we knew he was sick for 10 years but did not get news he had passed on. She sat for a few minutes nice to see her again and then off to find the picnic nice to see them wish there had been better communication so many would have loved to see each other again. Had to go company coming so only stayed for a few minutes but nice just the same.

Our friend is waiting for a surgery date as well she needs to have both knees replaced so had a little talk about my knees and told her to be careful. Exchanged email addresses and phone numbers and going to keep in touch that way. He kids are all grown wants to show us her grandchildren.

Small world great place to see old friends guess we all enjoy our wonderful park and although we do not see each other as much now no longer working we developed the type of friendships that as we all agreed do not come along all the time. Fortunate to have these people in my memories as they were the best . All pulled together when we were getting married, a shower was held at the home of one of our friends her Mom put so much into the surprise part of it and held so that even the people working the even people working the evening shift could attend. I was so honored to see that people made such an effort most of the store attended and so much care.

My husbands sisters gave us another shower and got to meet all of his relatives his Mom had all sisters 8 of them gentle nice women such an honor held at a hall and such a surprise we were blessed to be part of these caring wonderful people Then my husband had his own shower as well a tool box and a few other things. The guys went to my husbands stag. Going to go next year maybe we can even help to gather up more people who would love to be part of this picnic so many have left us as we were the younger ones back then but friendships sincere friendships we did not spend our time off together we all had our own personal things but best people you could ever ask for and there so many times for each other. Mentioned bone smart to her so maybe she will be a member after her surgery. Wish you a great day Holly
 
Holly,
Sounds like you had a nice weekend, and met some interesting people on your walks.
I hope the firemen were able to pull the little dog out and find it's owner.
 
Hello Holly @lavender

As always reading your very descriptive posts is almost like being in the park with you and your husband.

The two of you seemed to have had a lovely weekend.

Take care,
Cathie
 
Hi @marmora Nice to receive your post and hope you had a great time at the wedding. Today is quite a bit cooler and we decided to take our air conditioner out last night and just have the window open cooler but feels cozy sleeping better.

Yesterday we had medical appointments so we both went to the doctors. My test for the blood sugar came out much lower and the graph of progress looks like a mountain coming down the dietitian still wants more but my doctor said he is very pleased has not been this good for quite a while he said he is happy with my results. My blood pressure has been pretty good all along but now too high so a new medication prescribed happy to see the ones he gave me before cut down so not as much but this one is stronger and risks if dose missed that I could be at risk for a heart attack or stroke so being very careful not to miss any.

I mentioned to the nurse we really like who takes care of us before our doctor comes in about my husband having a blood test upstairs this morning at the lab there and telling her hope he makes it back in time for his needle today. While sitting at a picnic table the other day we were met by an older woman who wanted some advice on what to do she said she noticed while walking on the other side of the river that there seemed to be a small animal dog or cat caught on the large branch in the water and wanted to know
who to call.

With all of the heavy rain and the high levels of water on the river the waterfalls flowing more like rushing water then its usually calm water movement logs and branches were swept over the falls only the large piece almost like a tree caught above the falls in the water over the other side which was at the time of the high water covered in water. She noticed that something was caught on the log and she was so upset looked like a cat or dog had been caught and drowned. She wanted to know how to go about getting help and asked if we knew who she should call she was visiting from a town just a few minutes away on the outskirts of our city and not sure who she should tell.

We sat talking such a nice woman probably about 80 years old or so very spry she was walking her little dog who was very patient and she sat with us for quite a while. We suggested the parks department and then so asked if the fire department might be willing . We have a fire station down the end of the park by the other bridge and only a few minutes away so she was going to stop by there and talk to them on her way home.

We had noticed the fire man in the park just a few days before combing the river up and down the side we were sitting on up by the larger waterfalls and wondering that day what they were searching for. We wondered if any one of animal had fallen into the current of the rough water and this may be what they were searching for.

The lady was very nice to spend time with she sat on the picnic table bench with us and we shared our love of this park and how much we enjoyed being able to share in its beauty and our love for our feathered friends we talked about the turtles that we saw last summer and she explained how careful you need to be not getting to
close so strong she grew up on a farm and how strong they are.We talked about the feeling of appreciation for being fortunate to have this beautiful place in our city and how nice it is to go freely there and just bask in the relaxing moments we have enjoyed so much.

The lady talked about her love for Elvis and how much she enjoyed a tribute she had been to the night before at a church somewhere near where she lives and how she loved him singing she was lovely.

I will call her my friend as she is someone that I would love to meet again she was so refreshing light at heart and the little dog was her nieces dog and when her niece moved away she offered to take him home and take care of him for her and he is now part of her family. He was relaxed and had a red harness and I think he is a Jack Russel terrier.

Talked a while over an hour and just as she was leaving she and I thought of something else to say. Reminded me of how my Mom and I used to talk before my Dad died and she changed so much she had been lovely to.

She left to go to the fire station and before she went we told each other we hoped we would meet again she enjoyed the talk to and expressed that so many pass by she like me said she always tries as they do to say hello just a hello in passing some people may never get a hello or acknowledgment they are even there and I agreed even if they do not reply back she and I say it anyway what does it hurt. She is someone even for just that bit of time I felt like I knew she was someone I am so happy I had a chance to meet and hope to see her again reminded me of the closeness I shared with my Gram to loved her and she was wonderful missing my Dad so much he would have cared to.

Yesterday we went to the park looking over the river to where the large tree like shape was in the water we noticed that the shape we saw the day we sat with the lovely lady was no longer visible. An act of kindness she cared to give this little animal a chance to be buried or at least taken from the cold water and maybe someone who was missing this little cat or dog will have closure sad as it is to know it is not lost and starving but at least knowing where it went. She said sitting with us and her little dog and looking at him that she would want this for him someone who cared that he was at least found and wanted to do the same for this little creature so would I.

Emotional how it made me feel and having to be careful more with this my health needs me to be careful but each day gives us some kind of gift not always something we notice or understand but each day is a gift no matter how much we can sometimes get bogged down in our worries and each day maybe we have given a gift to someone else not of money or something we have to wrap up but maybe the gift of our time and love and care is the best gift we can receive my husband is my gift the best I could have wished for my chance to have been touched by the love of my Dad and his patient way strong but patient and times with my family that I shared and waking up each day even if you are not feeling well and sharing in the life that seems to last only a little while but making the most of what we can of every day we are blessed. Sorry for the really long post tried to edit it a bit but this is what is left. Hope you have a wonderful day Holly
 
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Hi I am so excited really hoping that the phone call left this morning by my surgeons secretary means they have a date for my surgery. I have phoned back and hoping they are just on lunch as can't see why they would be calling otherwise. I had a call from the nurse that takes care of making sure that we are ready for surgery. She takes care of my surgeons patients and deals with blood quality to make sure that all levels are strong enough for surgery. I met her in the hospital while sitting waiting for my cortisone shot and she wondered if I had a date for my surgery yet. I told her 4 to 6 months and she said she would be watching for my name on her surgery list she thought I mentioned a surgery date and thought it was November but told her no word yet. Crossing my fingers and hoping this call will be a date hoping to get it all settled before the cold weather and ice but if not it will be ok either way.

This is the way it happened last time saw her at my Moms pre- op appointments and met her for the first time I mentioned that day that I was also waiting for surgery and then things seemed to move along fast she told me to check with the surgeons office at that time and make sure that they had me on the list she thought it should be coming up soon and then three weeks later my right knee surgery was here. Hoping so just hoping this is what she called for all ready to go not sure how soon but just need a bath seat . My family doctor told me at my appointment yesterday that my iron levels are good he is pleased hope nothing else gets in the way. Hope I am not getting too far ahead of myself but no waiting for her to return my call. Holly
 
Hello Holly, @lavender

Hope that the phone call brings you good news.
My thoughts are with you, as you wait to speak with someone today about your surgery date.

Take care,
Cathie
 
Hi @marmora My husband has just suggested we go to the surgeons office and see if they are there today no answer on their phone just want to know anxious will let you know if the news is a date for surgery hope they are there today. Holly
 
Hi Holly @lavender

That's sounds like a good idea, as you both are probably very anxious to know why his office rang you earlier.

Cathie
 
Well just reached the office of my surgeon and nowI have a surgery date. I will be having surgery on December 18 2014 . Quiet Christmas this year but we will have a nice one just the same not planning on going to my brothers not that early but maybe as we were invited for supper the night I came home from the hospital so who knows just thankful to have a surgery date and now to buy a bath seat. She is sending me my list of appointments for pre-op and I have just called the blood test co-ordinator to let her know my date has been planned. So not as long a wait as I expected now just get ready around the house Very happy to have a date and by the spring hopefully ready to get back to some time in the park even if just to sit on a bench so happy it is all settled no more waiting to hear from them. Same day as my appointment with family doctor and blood test so will be nice to go a few days early and then no more till March next year to have this follow up. So hopefully not much need to go out for a little while other then a few with the surgeon afterwords. Feeling very happy. Holly
 
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