Hi
@Judlepip I would be inclined to wait and see what Josephine says. Your legs look better than mine. I've never seen my legs particularly the TKR look like they do. The TKR on mine is still very swollen but hopefully is being fixed next week on the 19th June x x to be honest my TKR is a similar shape to yours but with more pronounced swelling x
As regards shouting at your husband..It's perfectly natural to take it out on the one closest to us, you know that. However, remember you're feeling bad about yourself right now, you're angry at the situation you find yourself in and this stage of being less able than you were is bound to be getting you down. I know that all you want is to be back to normal. I regularly apologise to my husband explaining why I've shouted or cussed. Wait and see what Josephine says about your knee. Are you due a follow up appointment? It may be you need a little extra PT. I do understand where you're coming from with this! I don't know how you feel as I'm not you but I have an inkling.
I've gone from being a racehorse to a tortoise and frustrated doesn't even begin to describe how I feel. The rage, the anger, the frustration, the helplessness, the isolation, lack of independence. Like you my husband has to help with where there's no railings too, otherwise it takes me a long time to get down steps. I am still two feet per step, I still can't drive and like I said before I do get what you're on about.
I so feel for you and would suggest that if you are still concerned after speaking to Josephine or the others, why don't you pop down to your doctors and see if he can arrange another follow up/meeting with your surgeon?
I wish I had a magic wand to get rid of all our aches, pains, medical conditions, I'd use it on everybody x x x x please take care....
Love Nana moon 27 xoxoxox