Jojool, I know we've gone over this before, but wanted to share today's experience to give you a little more reassurance, as a sort of sanity check. I just went to the gym at the clubhouse to walk on the treadmill. It's the first time I've done that, because now I feel steady and confident enough to do a treadmill workout. (Probably could have done it sooner, but chose to wait.) Being able to do this makes a big difference, because it's soooo hot and humid in Florida. I know Arizona is terrible this time of the year, too. Working out in air-conditioning, with the fan from the treadmill blowing in my face, really helps.
STILL, I was only able to do 20 minutes, about 1/2 mile, at a 1.5 mph pace. That's half the pace I'd normally walk comfortably, but it was a real workout for me today. I was breaking a heavy sweat, despite the air-conditioning. I did walk 3/4 mile earlier, outside, but was really pushing myself too hard, and I had to do it because I was walking a circuit and couldn't get home unless I finished. And tomorrow is 6 weeks from surgery for me.
Jojool, you are 15 years younger than I am, and I think you are more athletic (horses, etc.), so I suspect you'll progress more rapidly than I am doing in terms of speed, distance, endurance. Still, we had the same surgery -- SuperPath -- so there is that element of comparability. And what we've read on this forum about "energy drain" is real and unavoidable. Even though I'm not in pain any longer, and I feel great, the surgery has certainly slowed me down for the time being.
One crucial thing to remember is that recovering from a major surgery like this requires a large element of "self-coaching." We need to be constantly encouraging ourselves, recognizing our progress, applauding ourselves for every small thing we can do, for every way in which we are feeling better. My concern with unrealistic "goals" like walking a mile after only 7 days is that they can make us feel badly about ourselves, and feel as though we are failing, when we are really succeeding magnificently.
I hope you weren't offended by what I said about your doctor's marketing initiatives. He is a brilliant surgeon, very well known and respected nationally, and I guess there are a few people who somehow rise from the dead and play nine holes of golf the day after total hip replacement. But that is NOT par for the course, and I get angry at the thought of anyone saying or doing anything to depress your spirits when you have been so brave, and overcome so much fear.