I think that's the take away that really took me the longest to accept - we're all SO different, our recoveries SO different, even our two knees are SO different - there are very general guidelines on where we should be at when, but really, those are so subjective. I did drive myself insane during the first month or so, crying because I just could NOT bend! I couldn't understand why, but it just wasn't happening. Even in hospital, the CPM was only at 65, it just wasn't happening for me. It was at my 6 wk check up we made the decision to do the BMUA's, both knees locked at 53 degrees, and BOY, what a relief they were. Immediately afterwards, I was over 90 ROM which I've kept and improved on. Only then did I begin to experience the stages of recovery I'd been reading about for so long on here! Now, both are over 120 ROM and 0 extension (the extension was really a challenge).
For me, I think the allergies I have to so many meds definately impacted my recovery because I simply couldn't not get relief from a lot of swelling and pain, and in theory, that lead to the scarring which locked my knees in place. Now, I really don't limit what I do, but more how much I do in a day. I still ice, definately still elevate, and just adjust as needed. Heck, I even went bowling, first time since before surgery, and beat my average, rolled a 145 with a 14# ball no less!
Hee hee, I remember when my surgery was initially scheduled, my HR mentioned something about me probably returning to work around three weeks post op


BOY, was that estimate OFF!!
I generally feel great now, still have the pain and swelling as I described, but it's no where near as bad as even two months ago. As I told my doctor on Friday, I'm at the point I am VERY glad I had the surgery done - I have more ROM now than before which we're both thrilled with. But, there's still more healing and improvement to go. I've read that after an MUA, it literally takes you to day 1 in recovery. That means as of today, I'm six months out and from everything I've read, basically right on track. I've also read full recovery can take upwards of a year, which seems to the track I'm on.
Good luck as you continue healing and recovery, just be kind to yourself along the way and let your body do what it's going to do. If you're tired, nap. If it doesn't need to be done, don't do it. LET other's help you!! Hubby got to be quite the pro at cooking, cleaning, shopping, errands - he was so happy when I could start taking some of it back, hee hee!