"If or when will I be able to soak in a bathtub and be able to get out?. I want a Calgon take me away bath! Showers are ok but I want to relax!"
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@bibi! A woman after my own heart!! Of course, as Celle said, you must wait until all open wounds are healed. Since I couldn't bend the new knee that much and thus couldn't get it under me to get out, this is how I did it at first: I used a small step stool--plastic, about 9" high, with a handle in the middle. (walmart less than $10) Put in tub at back and sit on it then "shinny" off and grab handle, colapse it and put outside of tub. When finished with the bath, put it behind you and "shinny" up onto it--with luck this will raise you up enough you can use your other leg and your arms on the tub edge to raise you the rest of the way. Go slow and carefully. Ah-h-h the joy of a warm bath.

I really felt I was on the way to healing when I could bathe. Baths also ease the tightness in your legs and back. Side benefit was that I would put my tkr leg up on the side and stretch it out.
I had some problems with restless leg, but I quickly figured out that even though my pain was a lot better, I was trying to go off my pain meds too early in the game. As soon as I went back on them, the restlessness disappeared.

A couple of weeks later, and I was fine to go off the meds.
Sorry you are having so much trouble with swelling--my OS was a firm believer in making progress slowly. He insisted "no pain!" He said people were creating the very problems they were trying to prevent by going at things too vigorously. It sounds to me like your PT people just can't back off and let nature do what nature is suppose to do. This weekend think happy thoughts,

rest, elevate and ice! Seems like that poor leg of yours needs a chance to heal without all that interference from others.
